Can you experience love & lust toghether?

I think there can be. Lust isn't constant. it can come and go. and that's fine. that's the nature of lust. it can complicate a relationship if lust is gone for too long. but often a couple settle into a comfortable sort of relationship. I don't think that many relationships lose lust forever, it just becomes a more comfortable and less intense sort of lust.

I do agree with that, but can there be love without lust in a relationship too?

I especially think that lust plays a more important role at specific stages in our lives. I'm only 27 and I think at my age lust is quite an important feeling in connection with love. Though I tend to agree with the above mentioned, namely that love without lust exists (as you said parents etc), but I believe that at the age of 40 or 50 lust becomes less important than before, though I don't mean to say that people of that age don't feel lust any longer, I just think it becomes less important in general. It probably depends both on the person and on the stage in life you're in.

Yes that is what I believe. I know you have certain situation where love can come without lust. But for the majority of relationship I believe it is lust then love. i remember hearing over the television, an argument about this, and it was said lust is like the key to a door and inside the room is love. What they were trying to say is sometimes if you dont lust, you wont take the initiative to pull that door, or rather you wont be interested in the key to pull that door. But when you lust and you are lucky enough to get that door open providing that girl/boy feels the same for you. then You wont need the key again to that door, as now you have love but notice through problems and such, that door can close back on you. If you love the person enough it could be possible you will gain extra ordinary strength and break down that door. No more key required or rather said no lust required.

So you recon first comes lust and then the love?

Lust is the feeling of nervous and jittery, Where love should be you love that person you are happy to see them, you can easliy share feelings and be like best freinds including benifits and more, if those 2 feelings dont come toghter what then?

Have you experienced it toghtether? what if lust goes away, is the love stil strong to survive without lust? and how do you get the lust feeling back for your partnet to feel that way and for yourself?