Do you always allow your children to join the school fieldtrip?

@r3jcorp (1382)
Philippines
January 10, 2012 6:12pm CST
My daughter's school is scheduled to have a fieldtrip on the 19th of this month. For the previous years, my daughters always join for extra points to both academics and extra curricular activities, for relaxation and to visit places we've never been before and to learn something from the trip. But for this year, my daughters are the ones who told me that they don't want to join. First, because they already visited the places that are scheduled to go. Then, my eldest has a Math competition on the 20th, so she will just review on that day. And last, they both agreed to have a leisure time and a bonding time with each other on the 21st instead. I think, it is a much better idea because it will lessen the expenses and they will be happier.
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@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Back in childhood,my mother always allow me to join the field trip or educational tour in school.It is educational,entertaining and fun experience way back in childhood.Some places to go to are really educational but there are some places also where we can enjoy and have fun. Today,my niece is always allow by my sister to join field trip for her to enjoy and learn and at the same time bond with each other.
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@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
Contrary to your experience, I never was allowed by my mother to join the field trip. She was a worrier, and she knows we tend to be dizzy when riding a bus. And of course, due to a lot of financial constraint. Now that I have my own children, I allow them as long as it could fit our budget. Sometimes, they pay for their own fees through their birthday cash gifts. I just pay for their meals and extra budget.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
I don't have any choice when it comes to my son's field trips. I mean, it's part of their curriculum for the year and the cost of these activities have been already incorporated in the school fees we've paid. However, I also think that there would be instances wherein other activities might be more important than a field trip, and in these instances, I'd rather have my son do those instead of attending the field trip.
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@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
I hope my daughter's school would not think of incorporating the field trip fees in the school's fees. They already thought of incorporating the Retreat/Recollections fees since this activity is required in every Catholic schools. It is really hard to fit in in our budget extra curricular activities like this.
@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
11 Jan 12
As a teacher, who has gone on the same field trips over and over, I still find that I get something new even after having gone to the same place for the previous five years. Most schools do not allow for frivolous field trips, they all have to have academic connections. I really feel that those experiences are better learning tools than a lot of the book work that is required in education. I also understand the expenses that go along with the trips. My school district is lucky enough to have an outside foundation, formed of former graduates, that pay most of the expenses. If your school is anything like mine, your children will have to travel to get to their destination. They can use that time to review and study. Also, they miss a bonding experience with their classmates. Sometimes seeing someone outside of a normal setting gives you a different impression of them. Another thing to keep in mind, is that if there are a certain number of days that the children are allowed to miss without penalty academically, this might be a silly day to miss, when a real sickness or family emergency may arise. That being said, I do understand wanting to allow older children to use their reasoning and judgement skills to make a mature decision.
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@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
I guess it's because a lot of time was spent in the leisure places like parks more than the historical places. Teachers don't usually give extra effort on explaining on the importance of those places and since they knew that parents are with the children, they just leave it to them. And there is no foundation who is sponsoring the trip but rather, parents pay for the fare of the teachers and the school is earning income from it.
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Your kids are thinking maturely r3jcorp! Most kids would love to join in their school field trips just thinking the pleasure it will bring. My daughter who's in 4th grade is also acting maturely. Last year, I didn't let her join their trip because it falls on her brother's birthday. She understand it.
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@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
Thank you and I am certain that I am blessed to have them as my daughters. I think it is something to do on how we raised them. You too are blessed for having a very understading daughter.
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Good luck on your daughter's math competition.i am sure you are so proud to have a very competitive and bright child . Since they both agreed on skipping the field trip for their own personal reasons and the fact that it won't affect their grades that much its just right to obey what they like. As a mother,i always allow and even persuade my daughter to go to school field trip.There are lot to learn and we can both have fun joining(guardian is needed).Though it is costly most of the times , the memories that those day outs brought are marked in her mind and will always remembered.The happiness that i see whenever she is telling tales about the trips makes me want to let her join again and again .
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@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
Thank you Tamirs. For my elementary child, I always goes with them during field trip. Though it is more expensive, I think it would be safer and would mean less worrying to us. But for my highschool daughter, I allow her to go with her classmates as long she keeps her communication with me.
@yiankoon (23)
11 Jan 12
You are lucky to have a smart daughter. She knows how to plan her schedule. Most of the kids would like to enjoy and forget about their priorities. Mothers have to constant keeping an eyes on their children.
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@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
Indeed I am lucky to have her. There are things that she should give way for a much better oportunity. She was working hard on the Math Challenge Review, spending extra 2 hours from Monday to Friday and the whole weekend for it. This weekend, she supposed to have a Saturday CAT Military Training but she have to asked for an excused because she have a Math Review again. She never complains on how tired she feels.
• United States
11 Jan 12
I don't have children but I know when I was younger I did go on all the field trips. Sometimes the places were interesting and mostly it was fun to be somewhere different with my friends. I think all children should go on field trips because most of the time it is not a place you will go to outside of school (i.e museums).
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
11 Jan 12
I used to be a room mother for all my children when they were in elementary school. I had 5. So I did all their parties and also went on all their field trips with them. It was always fun to interact with the kids. Most of the children were always anxious to learn and loved that I had knowledge on just about anywhere we went whether it be the zoo, museum, or science center. Even the ones that said they were bored would come alive when around me because I loved to show them things and point out stuff they would not have noticed if someone had not brought it to their attention. I loved all the years I did as room mother with my children. always fond memories not just of mine but the entire class with interaction I got.
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
I always try to be a room mother even if I am working. I really sacrificed my leave credits just to attend activities, competitions, field trips and awarding ceremonies and until now, I make sure that I bring them to school and fetch them in the afternoon. It is really a fun experience and I also established a good relationship not only with her classmates but also with their parents. Field trips are much tiring with us, mothers, because we are wide awake from the preparation of foods and other things needed to the trip until we are home to clean things again. But it could never match the happiness of our children.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
When I was in High school, I attended two field trips. First was when I was first year and second was when I was fourth year I guess. I forgot. My mother would hesitate me to join because of financial and security reasons. But I insisted of joining because of the extra points I get.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
I was not allowed much by my mom to go on school field trip. I only remember once in grade school (and high school) when she came with me. But after that, when moms aren't allowed to come anymore, she didn't let me join. That is really sad for me. But I can't do anything. She's the mom and the one who should decide for me. But in college of course I had to join. I think they are just protective of me because my younger brother was allowed to go on field trips. He;s a guy.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
if it is not required then its alright and also they have visited the places to go on their field trip already so for them they don't enjoy it anymore..it's best to let them do and go where they would enjoy and makes them happy..i think its a much better option and idea..
@bb_gabs (205)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
I think your child have a good choice of not joining the feild trip, for if they join they will just waste time, effort and money. You must be proud for they know how to make a good decision.