what do you do when your new year starts bad?

@shiesse (306)
Canada
January 11, 2012 9:21am CST
Hello, I've had a really horrible start to the new year here, and it has me wondering what do you do when the begining to the new year goes bad. Do you think that the worst is over and it could only get better from here on out? Or do you think it is an omen for this to be a very bad year? I don't know how I feel, I know the worst is not over yet but am trying to look for positive inspiration for the rest of my year, seeing as it just started.
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13 responses
• India
11 Jan 12
Doesnt matter." what starts good is half done" such quotes are just for losers. your year wil be a very prosperous one. be brave . god bless u
• United States
12 Jan 12
I agree with this!
• India
13 Jan 12
My grandfather told me that.i respect him very much for he is a man of moral values and truths of life..
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Even if my new year started bad, i wouldn't think ever that the rest of my year will be like that also. Things happen for a reason so just pray and be optimistic that something good will follow after that. Think positive my friend and pray that the bad start would go away.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
Okay, let's pray for him to surpass the bad starters.
• India
12 Jan 12
Hey SIMPLYD, Lets give him prayers Go for the best dear
@albto_568 (1268)
• Costa Rica
12 Jan 12
Sorry to ear about your situation, sometimes, things do not seems to go the way we expected, and seems to go bad for us, this things happens to all of us, and it can be anytime, I recommend you not to see this as any omen, or something like that, this sort of things can happen any time of the year, and do not mean nothing, maybe we just have to reconsider the way we are going to, or, maybe, is just the way it had to be. Think that you do not know the future,and something that may not look so good now, may turn into something good, or needed when you see it in retrospective. Look ahead with optimism, what else can you do?, and I hope things will get better for you.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
12 Jan 12
Hi shiesse, you have 364 days and 364 chances to make 2012 good. You cannot let the day 1 of the year influence how the entire year will turn out.
• India
12 Jan 12
The situations gets changed when you approach to the situation gets changed. If your 1st day of the new year gets bad then it doesn't men that you will have bad times through out the days. Go for the best then you be the best
@Cwipor (11)
• China
12 Jan 12
You are not alone.
• United States
12 Jan 12
it can only get better! once the hard stuff is over you can enjoy the good times even more.
• United States
11 Jan 12
It all depends on how you look at situations. In my opinion everything happens for a reason. So I would take all this in and look at it as this is the bad that has happened this year and move on. Things can only get better if you have a positive outlook.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 12
My new years always start bad because i hate end years and new years especially those dec jan feb dates where frens gather together and family relatives comes close together to judge each other and such , maybe people said i am sensitive but sometime those people are just insensitive and cruel to each other with their comments and such.
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
I used to have that kind of thinking but We shouldn't feel that way. Our new year may started bad believe it doesn't mean that your whole year will be bad as well. Be positive. Stay positive. Just ignore what had happened and SMILE.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
11 Jan 12
This is very hard question some time we cant do anything even our days are running bad. But positive thinking is necessary to face the problem.
11 Jan 12
Hi shiesse, sorry to hear about your bad start to the new year. I obviously don't know the details but I am a great believer in the power of positive thinking and hence, try to look on the bright side of things. I obviously don't know if the worst is over for you but do try to focus on the positive and I'm sure it will help you. Try not to become overwhelmed if you experience setbacks, (we all do), and focus on achieving your ultimate goal and what it will mean to you when you do achieve it.
• China
11 Jan 12
My dear friend,dont worry,luck will always with you if you working hard.