Some fighting couples stay together.

@karin27 (141)
South Africa
January 12, 2012 2:38am CST
Some couples fight like crazy and then when they make up its awesome again, why does these couples usualy last?
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
I have to agree with everyone. There is no perfect relationship. And it won't be a happy relationship if there is no arguments and fights. It will be too good to be true if both will always be smiling and happy. Little differences will surface which will lead to arguments. Without arguments, relationship will be a bit boring.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
That will depend on you. If the fight is unbearable anymore then I'd say leave the relationship. Love will always be strong as long as you keep hoping things will work out smoothly. But if it seems unhappy at all, it is better to get hurt, leave and forget. You will soon move on and will forget about your feelings.
@karin27 (141)
• South Africa
13 Jan 12
I also agree with everyone, but what if there is too many fights? but the love is stil strong and you cant seem to let go?
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
12 Jan 12
Sometimes I think some married couple enjoy fighting, some of my friends fight all the time and I have said if my partner called me the names that some of them call each other I would be out of that place so quick, I couldn't stand the tension...
@karin27 (141)
• South Africa
13 Jan 12
I hate tention as well, as a matter of fact i have tention most of my days with various situations. But i agree, you should be respected and not be called things you dont like.
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Fighting is a normal thing with relationships...cause not all the time you agree on things, because your two different people. Its just a matter of how you guys compensate. And if you really love each other then you'd be able to last.
@dodo19 (47113)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Jan 12
Every couple will fight. It's not something that you can really avoid, I think. However, some couples do seem to fight a lot more than others, and I don't know why they remain together to be honest. It doesn't make much sense, but sometimes that's just the way that it is.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
hello, Because they fight for a reason, they fight because it is a part of loving each other and it is the truth that you will hear to your love one that he really do care for you. They last because they are open to each other it is like give and take. You forgive and forget and that's how relationship should work.
@karin27 (141)
• South Africa
13 Jan 12
What if horrible things get said during the fight, to me its impossible to forget and then i walk around with hurt.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
12 Jan 12
Hi, Difference of opinion is common if there are two persons. people fight does not mean that they do not love. You said it rightly they are awesome again after the fight. It is necessary to forgive and forget the issues you had to fight over with your lover. That will give you more understanding and strong bonding about your partner. I too fight often with my husband and we are married for 15 years, have two children. I think those fights can not be termed as crazy but I would say healthy arguments..
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
12 Jan 12
The fact people fight doesn't mean they don't love eachother. Personally I think it's impossible to have a good relationship without having ever any discussion or fight. If you have self esteem are an individual you have dreams, plans, hopes, an opinion of your own. You won't always give in and give up on your own life.