couple counseling

@nascar (4509)
Netherlands
November 20, 2006 9:38pm CST
couple counseling. if your partner said he or she would like to go to a couple counseling. what will your reaction be?
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12 responses
• United States
27 Nov 06
I have doubt I would agree to it. Couples counseling can allow one to express the things they fear to a loved one, things they may have never otherwise exposed. It can lead to greater understanding and compassion for each other.
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
27 Nov 06
oke thanks for your reply.
@MagusX (1098)
• Brazil
24 Nov 06
well, i dont know what i would do
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
24 Nov 06
oke thanks for your reply.
@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
21 Nov 06
i think it's more likely that i should come up with that idea as my partner is not into those kind of things,he is not always willing to talk to me about our problems,i don't think he would like to do it in front of a stranger:)
@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
21 Nov 06
oke thanks for your comment.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
24 Nov 06
If my husband suggested the idea, then we definately would go. Why? Well if he thought it important enough to suggest the idea, then there is obviously something that is concerning him about our relationship. Not to go would not help the matter and could be exacerbated by ignoring his feelings.
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
24 Nov 06
oke cool. thanks for your reply.
@exchange (947)
• Australia
24 Nov 06
devorce we have no problems
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
24 Nov 06
haha. deny oke. just devorce.
@JoeyCa (1810)
• Belgium
24 Nov 06
I would try to solve myself first but indeed if that doesn't help couple counseling could be an option of course.
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
24 Nov 06
oke thanks for your reply.
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
21 Nov 06
If my partner felt we needed it I would go. It wouldn't matter why. He would obviously be feeling the need or he wouldn't be asking me to go. I'd say the sooner the better.
@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
21 Nov 06
thanks for your reaction.
@isasice (2015)
• Iceland
21 Nov 06
My husband asked for that after I told him I wanted a divorce, I refused. I know that now amount of counceling will change what I don't like about my husband and I don't need a complete stranger to try to guilt me into changing my mind. I know it can work wonders for other people and think it's is necessary for some but it's not for me.
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
21 Nov 06
intersting comment.
@firelight (1858)
• Australia
21 Nov 06
I would go. Obviously if he asked this from me he must feel that there is an issue that needs addressing AND that he wants to sort it out instead of ignoring it or giving up on the relationship.
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
21 Nov 06
oke thanks for your comment
• Singapore
21 Nov 06
depends on whether we have any problem with the relationship. If yes, i will go..if no, ask him for the reason..if it's acceptable, i dont mind going!
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
21 Nov 06
you are easy going.cool
@mansha (6298)
• India
21 Nov 06
I think I will agree as I may not be the one seeing the problem he might be the one who sees it that way and finds it hard to pin point it to me.Its better to seek counsell when there is still time.
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@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
21 Nov 06
thanks for your comment.
• China
21 Nov 06
Romance - A kiss...
Well, if we really needed the counciling I'd probbably just say okay lets do it. Might as well, huh? But if I didn't think there was a problem, I'd probably ask why he brought up the idea all the sudden and figure out what was going on. If my boyfriend thought there was a need I'd give it a chance for him.
@nascar (4509)
• Netherlands
21 Nov 06
oke cool.