I have decided to stick with my old girl friend not that whom my parents choose.
By suman2008
@suman2008 (683)
India
January 17, 2012 11:30pm CST
I thought a lot and made up my mind that I must stick to my old girl friend.Though the girl whom my parents chosen is a very good as well as working lady,but I could not find any reason to dump the girl who is now in my life .She is still studying and not yet working .But I think if I stay with her she will be successful in near future.And if I leave her for my well established future then I might get lots of money as well as love from the new lady but the question will haunt me for the rest of my life and I won't be able to answer to my conscience .
So What I have done is the right decision for my future?
Wish all of you to have a healthy and successful relationship .
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13 responses
@kadamakash (66)
• India
18 Jan 12
Nice decision if you choose your love , if you are with your love then it will be great for you and your family .
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
18 Jan 12
where does suman2008 is saying he is loving his girlfriend? That is exactly what I am missing in his whole story.
@caryle (34)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Choose what you personally believe is best for you. It is not your parents who are going to marry your girl in the future anyway. Relationship is personal--it is between you and the girl. So if you truly love her then fight for her. Money will come, good future is something you can work on together.
@suman2008 (683)
• India
18 Jan 12
Thanks caryle,you are absolutely right.We must work hard for our good future.But if I any way dump her then her curse will haunt me ever in my life it doesn't matter how much money I will earn it will be all waste.
Thank you once again.
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
19 Jan 12
Congratulations on making the best decision for you and your girlfriend. One just never knows what life will bring in the long run. Enjoy your relationship day by day, the future will take care of itself.
Wishing you a long and happy relationship
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
19 Jan 12
Parents sometime choose options that is suitable and good for their children in their mind set , sometime their choise may not be agreeable to the children.I guess in your cases your parents wants someone which is solid financial that ensure your happiness together no need to worry too much about job future and fianancial .Maybe can start family immediately since both are viable in employment.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
18 Jan 12
Yeah that would be a tough thing to make a decision about. I would say to stick with the person that you love. And if she is the old girlfriend you can help her to be successful like you said. I hope that you and whoever you decide to stay with are able to have a happy future.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
18 Jan 12
good decision buddy,this is also mine problem. that whom to decide between the family and girlfriend.and if you decided that you are now going to with your girlfriend not with your parents choice,then don't be late in this. otherwise you may change your decision.
and i think being with your love in whole life is most wonderful thing of life.because how can we go with that girls ,whom we does not know before ,whom we never met before,i think this most foolish thing to do with your life.
and after all regret your decision in whole life.
@suman2008 (683)
• India
18 Jan 12
Thanks friend,but here it is not the case I have not met with the girl whom my parents chose for me.I met her and she is a quite good girl.But I could not tell her about my love .In the mean time she fell in love with me.But I have met her about a month ago.So I think I must confess her every thing and she will understand me fully.
I don't want to break that girl's heart too.
@padu19 (1441)
• India
18 Jan 12
Well, as far as you both are compatible, you really do not need to think about leaving her.
That doesn't mean that the girl should be 100 percent perfect to be your girl friend.
If you feel the chemistry between you will work throughout the life, then please do not let go this opportunity.
All the best!
That doesn't mean that the girl should be 100 percent perfect to be your girl friend. If you feel the chemistry between you will work throughout the life, then please do not let go this opportunity.
All the best! 
@madugulagopi (1093)
• India
18 Jan 12
That's a good decision buddy. Its always good to go with the person you are with when you know that there is no wrong with him/her. Moreover you know the person pretty well her negatives and positives. With the new gal, you might not know her properly and she might not be as good or as loving as your parents have thought. So convince your parents and be with your gal friend. I wish you all the best.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
we make decisions based on what we want in our lives, and hopefully after careful and thorough assessment, then we weigh things on the pros and cons as you have done. On the contrary when it comes to relationship, emotions or feelings from the heart really do affect our minds thus creating confusion on how to choose. Following your heart creates an atmosphere of unexplained joy, following your mind based on rational creates resentment as it lives many questions as you mentioned above.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
18 Jan 12
What bothers me is: I have not heard you say once you LOVE your girl friend.
You only talk about what those two different girls/ladies are able to give you. How they might develop in the future (good job being succesfull).
It must be terrible to be your gf, getting nothing back in return and they have to love you for that???
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
You have chosen the right decision if you truly love your current girlfriend. We can be practical to choose the new girl but if you don't love her you won't be happy at all.
@parascevi (313)
• Greece
18 Jan 12
Definetely you have done well with your decision and you should be very proud of yourself because you have chosen love,truth and hapiness instead of materialism, wealth and fake relationships. I think that i have done the same if i were you.
I wish you the best and all the hapiness with the girl you chose.
