Living in many different cultures
By sishy7
@sishy7 (27166)
Australia
January 21, 2012 6:58am CST
I realize this is not particularly unusual thing, living in different places. Many people do, especially if you come from a diplomat family. I was just pondering that I have lived in three different continents, each for a good number of years, even though I don't have any diplomatic background. I have now lived more than half of my lives abroad; and at this stage, my birth country becomes the place where I visit for holidays. Needless to say, I have met and adjusted to many different cultures. I have lived in opposite places; geographically, climate wise, time wise, or which side you are driving. Many things are different where I lived; language, school system, government system, food, habits, etc. I manage to adjust to all those differences and blend in with the local cultures while always keep my faith; the one thing which never change in me, only make me stronger each time I moved and help me uphold all I need to do where ever I am. What are the most interesting experience you have while living in different cultures?
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@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
6 Apr 12
After reading this, I am curious to know where your home country is? I know from your profile, and the times that you are here, that you are in Australia now but I have no idea from where you are originally.
I am English and I lived in England until I was in my early twenties. Then I went to Italy for a holiday and stayed on forever
I am pleased that I didn't stay in just one country. Until I moved I thought that the British way of doing things, everything included, was the correct way. Later I realised that there is no 'right' way at all and it all depends on where youhappen to be and cultural backgrounds.
I know this is frivolous but it is an example that always reappears when I am making comparisons. In England it is considered bad manners to dunk your biscuits in your cup of tea
while in Italy it is the 'done' thing and considered rather strange if you don't
Let's not mention queueing, which in England is normal while in Italy queues don't exist. In order to be served in the right order in shops, office, banks etc in Italy, you get a number when you enter. In England those numbers are not required because you just join the queue.
I am pleased that I didn't stay in just one country. Until I moved I thought that the British way of doing things, everything included, was the correct way. Later I realised that there is no 'right' way at all and it all depends on where youhappen to be and cultural backgrounds.
I know this is frivolous but it is an example that always reappears when I am making comparisons. In England it is considered bad manners to dunk your biscuits in your cup of tea
while in Italy it is the 'done' thing and considered rather strange if you don't
Let's not mention queueing, which in England is normal while in Italy queues don't exist. In order to be served in the right order in shops, office, banks etc in Italy, you get a number when you enter. In England those numbers are not required because you just join the queue.
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@sishy7 (27166)
• Australia
7 Apr 12
Glad to see you're here...
My children were born in the States, let's just leave it at that...
I am also ever grateful with all the opportunities that I have living in different countries. I have no regrets with all the moves that I have, all is always well with the places I left, I am living, and who knows where else in the future...
I guess I'm just an easy going person when it comes to adjusting to different places. And the fact that my family are happy where ever we are plays an important part in our each moving decisions. I've been on my own since 17; once I have family, they are the center of everything I do, I just want what's best for them...
Yeah, it's always interesting to learn the differences in cultures. What's acceptable in one place could very well be something to avoid in another. First time I came to a McDonalds in Jakarta, I was trying to queue. But I noticed that I would never be served if I did. Along with other customers, I had to force myself to the counter to be noticed by the cashiers who took orders... 
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@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
8 Apr 12
Hello mysdiana & Sishy7, I would love to invite you both to visit yogyakarta and enjoy the culture here
. although I never lived in different continents or countries but I have lived in different provinces and island of my country, and i can say the culture from each place is very different. I was born in Java (when I was 40 days my family moved to sumatra), I was raised in Sumatra&yogyakarta, lived in Bali for a year, 3 years in jakarta now im back to live in yogyakarta but I study in other city.
I understand how do you feel about jakarta sishy7, jakarta is a city I will not want to come back to live there. The traffic, the people who doesnt want to be in queue, etc. I was in a supermarket in jakarta, and then I was in queue to the cashier but I noticed an old man behind me looked tired and he didnt buy alot of item so I told him to step infront of me so he can pay first...and my friend scolded me for that. It just In yogyakarta Im used to give the elderly a priority.
. although I never lived in different continents or countries but I have lived in different provinces and island of my country, and i can say the culture from each place is very different. I was born in Java (when I was 40 days my family moved to sumatra), I was raised in Sumatra&yogyakarta, lived in Bali for a year, 3 years in jakarta now im back to live in yogyakarta but I study in other city.
I understand how do you feel about jakarta sishy7, jakarta is a city I will not want to come back to live there. The traffic, the people who doesnt want to be in queue, etc. I was in a supermarket in jakarta, and then I was in queue to the cashier but I noticed an old man behind me looked tired and he didnt buy alot of item so I told him to step infront of me so he can pay first...and my friend scolded me for that. It just In yogyakarta Im used to give the elderly a priority.1 person likes this
@sishy7 (27166)
• Australia
8 Apr 12
Hi there,
I've been to Yogya and visited Borobudur too... You're right, it's much more 'peaceful' than Jakarta.
You've lived in many different interesting cultures yourself. I know Java, Sumatra, and Bali are quite different in almost everything; geographically, language, religion, food, etc. Which province in Sumatra did you live?
Did you have a chance to acquire any of the dialects? Are you fluent in Javanese? I know you can always speak in Bahasa Indonesia where ever you are there, but sometimes it's very useful if we know the local dialects of where we live.
Moreover, your English is very good. It's like you've been living overseas too. Perhaps it's from living in Bali for a yr? Looks like you've interacted with people in English as well.
Oops sorry, now you got me excited to learn more about your experiences. We'll probably have to continue this tomorrow as it's way past midnight here...1 person likes this

@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
21 Mar 17
@sishy7 I've never even left Australia before lol So I think putting me in a different country would totally spin me out. But who knows, maybe I can adapt easy. I guess I will find out when I finally get my butt over to Texas.
As for you, I think that's awesome. Seeing so many places and learning about it all. Really broadens your mind.
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@sishy7 (27166)
• Australia
21 Mar 17
@VivaLaDani13 Oh, you did really well with the saving so far. Keep it up!
You know I wish you nothing but the best and that everything will fall into places nicely for you... 

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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
21 Mar 17
@sishy7 I would love to go this year but I am waiting for the green light from my best friend who is over there. He is in some predicaments at the moment. For now it gives me time to save up. I've saved over $1600 in the gold coins!
But just a little over $3000 altogether. I would prefer to go when it's colder over there. I guess any time except summer over there. Don't like the heat.
LOL yes you seem to be! 
But just a little over $3000 altogether. I would prefer to go when it's colder over there. I guess any time except summer over there. Don't like the heat.
LOL yes you seem to be! 
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@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
That was a very nice experience. You must be happy of the opportunity. Not all people have that chance to be able to go abroad or live in two or more places other that their permanent abode.
You see it's also good to learn about other people's lives. Their culture, customs, food etc. which really differs from one place to another. It's one best learning a person would have in his lifetime. Because learning it from school is too different from actually experiencing it ourselves.
I'm thanking God for giving me the chance to work in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. The life there may not that desirable but the experience living in such a conservative and very strict country is worth the time spent living alone and living my family back home.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
21 Jan 12
It is really not as usual experience for most of the people as many don't grow up in a privilege family like having a diplomat parent, or born in a top government official family. Many people don't get to spend their childhood and adolescent living in many different cultures or in many different countries around the world several years at a time until adulthood. I will assume it is a long learning curve and is always a blessing for these privilege children who happen to get the chance to experience different cultures and traditions in their life stages, not even mention the life opportunity to travel freely around the globe. 

@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
8 Apr 12
of course..it was not easy live in different place..
i think the most interesting experience while we are living in the different cultures, we try to survive in the new situation..
i mean we try to change our habit that maybe is not suitable with the local tradition or local habit..
we learn a new habit or tradition and we can know how to face every characteristics from every person..
i think it was an interesting experience when iam living far away from my parents, far away from my hometown
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@sishy7 (27166)
• Australia
9 Apr 12
You're right, adjusting to new cultures is not always easy. I think the most important thing to always remember is respect. We may not understand all details of new cultures or we may not even in agreement on some things, but as long as we respect each other everything would be just fine.
@dheckerz (473)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
I haven't tried living abroad for a long time except for short vacations. But I grew up in a place different from where I worked after college and again was transferred in a different place after promotion. This is within the last 6 years of my life. Although it is just within the same country, I've encountered so many culture variations and uniqueness. And for me it is a great experience to see and experience people's ways. Its gives us more perspective of the world out there.
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