my girlfriend have angry to me.

@ucha14 (531)
Indonesia
January 22, 2012 6:50pm CST
hi mylotters in the world. i need your suggestion to me. me and my girlfriend got problem now. i don't know how to solve my problem. my girlfriend have angry everyday. give me solution friend
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18 responses
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
There must be something behind her anger. I can not give you a solution till you provide backgroud information regarding her being mad at you. If a girl is angry, there is usually something that hurts or annoys her.
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 12
There are two things, maybe, that make her mad. 1) She's trying to kick you away by being angry. 2) Something that hurts her without you knowing it. So, ask her to be open about it. If she tells you that she is not in love, leave her, and find another. There is a lot of fish in the sea, you see? If she says you hurt her, you change your behaviour.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 12
yanzalong, yes i agree if maybe ucha had ever said which hurt your girlfriend ucha.. but sometimes a woman always be angry and angry without strong reason..sometimes because of their menstruation make their mind is not balance maybe
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
yes you right some girl get angry because she hurts but i not hurts her, she get angry without i now what my wrong
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@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Why she get angry everyday?..maybe she have a reason. I think its also natural to a couple that having argument but saying this argument is everyday, i think its not normal so its better to talk to her in personal and ask her what is the reason why she get angry at you..
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@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
she not telling you why she get angry?
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 12
if she tell me i can solve mu problem. i can promised to her, but i no tell from her
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
i have tried to search what is the reason why she get angry but i don't macth anything, i get nihil solution, so i will ask to you how to i resolve problem
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
23 Jan 12
It's hard to give you a solution if I don't know what she is angry about. What did you do or say? Does she feel hurt in some way? My husband says: if we fight it doesn't mean anything since we love eachother. If I am angry my husband only needs to hold me in his arms and say this. Then everything is fine again.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 12
ucha, don`t worry about it..give her time and enjoy your self.. maybe this is your time for finishing your paypal problems
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
you can give me solution to me what i can do to find the problem
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@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
you don't explain the specific problem that you have with your girlfriend. maybe she got angry because of your attitude or something that she dislike. women prefer to silent about something than talk about it with her mate. they want to be understand. i think you should see to yourself, what thing that your girl dislike from you, and try to not do that again.
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@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
thanks for your advice, i dont know what problem, but i think myself not get wrong to her, i always love her, maybe she now is sensitive
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• India
23 Jan 12
Forget all mistakes of her and give up your ego. Propose her once more with a rose and say with smile, I still in your love and will always with you.
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
i have tried your solution but she is quiet again and again nothing say to me
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• Hungary
23 Jan 12
hello (ucha)what was the problem if you dont mind?so that i give you and advice about your problem.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 12
ucha, i forgot something last night.. i believe she still love you or like you.. yes, she is still angry with you,...maybe you make mistake that you never know and make her hurt.. and her anger is the natural respond i think many sign that actually she still like you..so don`t worry about it
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
hello aizabasiga i don't know what the problem so i sharing in here to search solution of the problem
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@lovedude (4447)
• India
23 Jan 12
getting angry about what? please describe the situation we can help you better. and yeah one more thing.. don't think she gets angry in every situation. try to understand her why she is angry.. what makes her angry.. how does she feel after anger.. you can put yourself at her place and think. you will get solution by your own..
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@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
i dont understand why her have angry with me, she have angry without i know what the problem?
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• United States
23 Jan 12
You are young and I am sure that your girlfriend is young too so as everyone told you before, listen to what is making her angry. Has she had something happen in her life lately, like a loss of a family member? If so she may just be angry for the loss which is normal for some people. If she has not had anything big happen to her lately then are you doing something that upsets her. Is there someone else in her life and she might be trying to get you out of the picture? Be open about these things with her so that you can find the truth and do what is the best thing for you and her. This might be a learning experience for both of you and you were not meant to be with each other for life.
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
yeah i am young, and i think it's small problem but it can make my work is not good.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
23 Jan 12
You don't specify why she gets angry every day. The only advice I can give you without any more information from you as to why she gets angry, is to tell you that she is getting angry for a reason, and the only way to help her get over her anger is to listen to what she says to you, and try to put yourself in her place and then react the way the you would want her to act towards you in the same situation. If she is angry over something that you did, or did not do, ask yourself how you would feel in her place and figure out what you can do to make it better.
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@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
i can't specify because i don't know why she gets angry to me, i just meet her and i will talk about problem. but she just quiet
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
Specify first the root of the problem here to get answer. Because how can we give you an advice if there is no specific problem you can tell us... Did your girlfriend angry with you because she find out another girl with you?
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
10 Feb 12
That's great! I want to say congrats, my friend. That maybe a little bit misunderstand between you and your girlfriend...Good to her, friend
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 12
yeah thanks for your comment. but i am and my girlfriend now is good. it's long ago.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
well..you must find to know, why she is angry with you?? whats going on with your relationship guys??
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
i think you must give her time for alone.. don`t push your self to her.. sometimes when you make her is alone, it will be better for her
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 12
yeah i already tried your suggestion friend. thanks
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
i don't know friend why she get angry to me, but i have tried to find, in fact i no have solution
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
23 Jan 12
Like everyone is wondering, I am wondering why she is angry and we feel you haven't been more descriptive. Well, anyways, I'm sure you know why she is angry with you and if you do not, sit down with her and ask her why she is angry with you what have you done. Let her explain and even vent. Don't interrupt her in any way, just listen. If she is angry with you then find some sort of way that you can fix it and let her know it will not be done again and actually mean it and don't say it just to say it.
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@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
i know think maybe she get angry with me because she get menstruation so she very sensitive
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• Japan
23 Jan 12
Hi ucha, that is natural for the lovers to have some arguement sometimes and needs to be settle down soon as possible. If you think that it's your fault that made her mad/angry then you need to come up to her and apologize and ask for her forgiveness. You both need to talk to settle your problem. In a relationship there's always ups and down tha you're that you guys have to go through. Talk to her sincerely and always be calm when you guys talk. Goodluck
@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
hi kyle, i now if on relationship of love we will get some problem, but if i don't know the problem, but she get angry. i will confused
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@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
23 Jan 12
Hi ucha, you actually talk like something is mentally wrong with your girlfriend...I don't mean to sound mean or disrespectful... I don't believe there reasons for people to just be angry everyday., unless there is a mental issue or a factual issue... You should make your complaint clearer so that we/mylotters in the world can better assist you with your issue. Has the communication broken down between you and your girl...
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@ucha14 (531)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 12
hi bjc66 i in here want to search solution if we get GF is angry with me but i don't know what the problem, so i very need your help
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
23 Jan 12
Sounds like an unhappy relationship all round. She is unhappy with you and so she is angry because of the way you are. You don't have a clue and you are unhappy. I reckon your relationship is over . If I was going with someone as clueless as you seem to be I would be angry too.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jan 12
hi ucha communication is what you need to find out why she is angry with you. You Ucha must ask your girlfriend why she is so angry then talk it out Most upsets can be solved if two people really really care for each other. Failure to talk with her will make her even more angry at you.Ask her why are you angry with me? What did I \do or not do to make you so upset? how do you think I can make things better between us? Talk and make her talk too until you two can resolve the problems and hug again. good luck and G od bless.
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Hi Ucha, i think you should have s serious one on one with her. Let her lay down all the cards to you, I really can not assume what the problem is, but what i can say is that you should communicate more often and resolve whatever issues you have with a humble and understanding heart.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 12
hoodedboi... same like you, i don`t know about the problems.. but he had explained that his girlfriend did not want to commuicate with him.. so i think we must understand too that the girl doesn`t want to open the communication with him now.. so i always believe he must succumb for winning..it`s difficult and not easy of course, but the result is so great and cool
@Luciano63 (157)
• France
23 Jan 12
Hi to me it sounds like your girl friend is letting you understand that the story is finished! This attitude often occurs not to have the courage to openly say that love is over and she does not feel well with you. It is an immature attitude, anyway try to see if she has another one....something changed!