I hate that person, I must know him
@craziestqueenever (1819)
Philippines
January 23, 2012 12:19pm CST
Hello there my fellow mylotters!
There comes a time that you hate someone for an unknown reason right? You hate him because you don't know him right? I' lingered this to my mind that I shouldn't hate someone for unknown reason in fact, I should know more about him so that, the hatred that I feel will lessen. There comes a time that I really hate this person because I don't know her, but as time passes by I find her to be nice and so entertaining.
Do you have this kind of experience? You hated someone then as time passes by you are now that close?
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7 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
23 Jan 12
No I don't. There is no reason for me to hate someone I don't know at all. Plus if I would hate someone there must be a very good reason for that and this also means I know this person very well and he/she did a lot to me to get me that far.
I can't think of anyone I hate, if people treat me bad my interest in them is over. There is nobody I hate I am close with now. It's very hard for me to understand how that can be possible.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
Celebrities are out of the question.
We can hate or love them!
@megamatt (14290)
• United States
2 Feb 12
You know, I never really hated anyone. Perhaps disliked strongly and that was most certainly after knowing them for an extended amount of time. Actually there is a quite similar situation to say the very least. There have been many people that I have been curious about, when I have heard others that I know badmouthing them, talking about how bad of people they are.
Well something like that intrigues me, hearing about a person that other people seem to not like so much. Could that person be as bad as they are said or is everyone just blowing things up? It does make be rather curious, in a rather morbid sense of the world. Obviously if I don't like someone, its going to be a long road to get me to warm up to them, but its going to be after many interactions to form an opinion.
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Good for you that you never hated anyone! keep it up!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
24 Jan 12
There are times when we judge person by our first impression on them. There are those whose personality does not meet our criteria so we tend to dislike the person. It is not fair to hate a person even before we know him more but many people have this tendency. I myself do have this rare tendency to dislike someone just at first glance but I always try to overcome this feeling because this is not good and not fair to the person. Yes I know a person that I disliked a lot during the first meeting but later as I came to know her more I realized I was wrong and so I now have her as one of my friends.

@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
Well said! It made me realize that I should know her first before I hate her. There's a reason why they act likes that.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
23 Jan 12
Not really. Even if i dont know the person if i hate them then i hate them. It wont go away. I can talk to them and be friendly for other sake but i would never be close just because of the fact that i dont go with his or her face.
It is something that i cant say is good about me. When i judge someone usually it is too hard to get that thought out. And if for some reason the do something i dont like (even if it isnt to me) then i just wont even try to be their friend.
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
2 Feb 12
I have this kind of thinking too, but when I get too know the person the feeling of hate turns into appreciation.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
23 Jan 12
Hi craziestqueenever, I have never had feelings about anyone...I
think before you finalize an impression of someone you really need
to get to know them...
However I have had a couple of people who say to me "that if they
really knew me they would have been talking to me"...Now how do
you think I reacted??? I was furious...But I got over it..
But first impression are one thing but thats not even enough to
conclude if you really like that person or not...
It unimagineable to hear someone say they don't like a person and
they don't even know why...It just dosen't make a lot of sense to me..
and the word "HATE" is a really really heavy/negative emotion, to feel
for no reason.....
@aizabasiga (63)
• Hungary
24 Jan 12
Hmmm u hate someone and u dont know the reason,this is not easy heheh how come?If you someone that u see that she or he do something rude to other people.I never experience this kind of problem.I was hoping it will not happen to me.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
That's quite odd... Hating someone you don't know. There must be a reason why you hate that person. Maybe you see that person acts so rude to others or that the person keeps teasing you. You can also hate someone because she seems to be flirty with someone you like. I never hated someone whom I don't know there will always be something which this person has to do for me to hate him/her.







