I was trying to help but a mother was mean to me.

Philippines
January 26, 2012 4:25am CST
Earlier i done visit but was not a good day. But before i went to visit , i bought mango,lemon to give to my friend who was sick fever.And then i walk going to their house from market,and when i come to their house the mother asking what is your need?I said i visit your daughter,the friend of me.But she talking about no,you can come here,leave.And his daughter wanted me to get in,and want to open door,but her mother did not give the key..So i understand.And when i was give the fruits,the mother did not receive and she said eat that and leave.. So i just leave its okay still have good attitudes. And the daughter texted me that she wanted the fruits,so i go back and give the fruits without knowing to her mother..A mean mother,devoted catholic..but its okay ..
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9 responses
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
oh no, that was mean my friend. But at least you were still able to give the fruits to your friend. I wonder why would she be mean with other people? Maybe she's hiding something in their house. But anyways, I hope her mom will change her attitude, you said she's really mean to other people too. Maybe she have some mood disorder or something. LOL. Well, i hope your friend will get well soon.
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• Philippines
7 Feb 12
Yes i hope she did realize the mistakes.. Every one do mistakes ,but hope that will change and will not do it again.. Yes i did do right and understand it and not make it as big deal..Itsis only a persecution for you.
@gaea23 (252)
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
Why did the mother act that way. In the first place you go to their place for a good reason. You just want to visit your friend whose sick and wanted her to eat good fruits. Anyway, it's good that you just let her being mean to you and never have grudge on her but she (mother) must be respectful to her daughters friend.
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• Philippines
7 Feb 12
Yes true, i just let it do what she did and hope she realize about it. Yes i did give back the food because her daughter wanted it,so i give with n knowing to her mother!
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
Hello! I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel, but I also wonder why the mother acted that way. I am sure there is a valid reason. You mentioned that her daughter borrowed your keyboard, and it was broken. Who broke the keyboard? Was it the mother or the daughter? How did you get back that keyboard?
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• Philippines
7 Feb 12
They broke my keyboard i think the brother of my friend girl and i get my keyboard so it will not worse but the mother was mean.. she should say sorry about my thing that they broke it but a attitude towards me. Her daughter know what her attitude,she think bad advance to other and even the neighbor she fight like with no big reason..I think she is influence and should be change the act of her mother..My keyboard not work till now but, i will try to buy the adoptor to it.
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
Hi! I can just imagine the hurt that you have experienced. The mother is really having some major issues in life and brought it out on you. Maybe she has many problems and she is not in the mood to face visitors of her daughter. What she has done is not good and you don't deserve to be treated like that. What you did is right, just let her be. As long as your friend was able to get the fruits and in your own small way was able to help her. Just pray that the mother of your friend will realize that she has done you wrong. Sometimes it is not easy being good and it takes a lot of patience and understanding to control your temper. But good things will happen to those who do good deeds. God will bless you for being a kind and thoughtful friend and when it rains it pours.
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
Yes that's true,maybe she did it .. she think you bad when you give help and try to give food. God will also repay for it,so let her be alone to realize and hope she will be change!
@tsn2458 (20)
• United States
28 Jan 12
O,my God! Your story is like something seen and heard maybe a century ago. Are they still people who choose their friends according to religion? And why this lady was so mean to you? If you are a boy that`s understandable-she doesn`t like you but that REALLY doesn`t matter if the girl does. If you are a girl, I can`t explain to myself this behavior. Maybe she is just mean. Maybe she thinks you are giving her daughter a bad example somehow. It`s sad and I am really sorry for you. But...what could I say.Don`t give up. Do your good job and you`ll be honored.
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
I am always nice,and the daughter knows what the act of her mother. Her daughter,who is my friend a faithful in Church Baptist ,going out and teaching kids about God.. Her mother is catholic and not the same. Maybe her mother think that differently ,and thinking that maybe her daughter was sick is because going out to with friend and when the visitor/friend come she will not allow it and even food did not accept it but her daughter wanted to so much.Because she was sick,and want to eat the food i brought for her,but the problem is her mother don't want to receive the blessings..But mean.. Later her daughter txt,that she want the food and yes i give with no mother sees it! And another story was they break my keyboard and i planned to get it and the mother mean too,they said say sorry about they broke my keyboard.but did not.
@angelako (280)
• Italy
26 Jan 12
Maybe she dont like you.One question,are you curting her daughter?for sure the mother is very protective to her daughter.Thats why she dont want someone like more closed to her daughter.some mother are like that,but they dont think it will just let her daughter stay aways from her and lying her in the future.
• Philippines
27 Jan 12
Don't think negative about me ,just to let you know i am more nicer ,and helpful.Her mother had such bad attitudes,even before.Her daughter is my friend ,she knows the acts of her mother ,so i understand it..I was trying to help ,because her daughter was sick and ask me go there but her mother is mean such a bad attitudes and even also to other people.
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• United States
8 Feb 12
Do you know what your friend is sick with? Maybe the mother was protecting her daughter or you. Maybe your friend's immune system is down, and her mom was trying to protect her from becoming sick with anything you could unknowingly have, and she may have come off as too stern due to the stress her daughter's ailment is putting on her. Also, she may have been protecting you. What if it's something contagious?
@mavil85 (348)
• Philippines
26 Jan 12
oh. good intention you got there! how sweet! well anyway, don't worry the mom maybe was just wasn't in the mood and maybe she was just protecting her child every mom is protective. it's a good thing her father wasn't there! or else it could have been worse! don't feel bad atleast the daughter got the fruits :)
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• Philippines
27 Jan 12
Yes,but i know her mother do that to me also long time ago, i was nice.That time i went their house to get my keyboard but what shes doing to me is to trying to throw my keyboard away.And her daughter barrow that and i get it because they broke it..but again yesterday is mean too,her daughter is 23 i think and she should teach her mother in good manner .
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• Philippines
7 Feb 12
There are instances like that. Probably because of wrong timing or they had some arguments or a lot of many reasons which I couldn't answered. How nice of you and a very true friend, visiting your friend is the most heart warming, because you value the time and make effort to visit him/her. Its a wonderful feeling if others do that to their friends. Imagine the world full of generous people.Go back to your discussion, How polite of you,respecting that person despite of bad displayed attitude you understand the situation. Sometimes in our life, we encountered many people with different attitudes, personalities beliefs and morals. Each of us has a bad and negative side that's why we are not perfect. I know some catholic christian in faith, they don't really know what is the true meaning of it. I don't judge them about their believes and way of interacting to people. We oftentimes know what we are doing. However we persuaded to our bad habits and trying to prove we are still right though evidence are there, proven of the guilt, let your conscience bothers you when you committed some inappropriate acts.
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
Maybe there is reason,but i understand ..Her mother maybe influence from their parents or etc. And also not good attitude to her,and she should change and realize what she did wrong.. Every one commit mistakes,but don't always do the mistakes that will ruined you and also people around you will know how act weird you are and even there is visitors come you show attitude meanly. And it is not right.. Her daughter know what she had attitude ,she should be thankful because someone of her friend visit,bring food/fruit but she act badly...Its a blessings and you refuse it..
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Family history also matters but if you make decisions to fight against temptation not to hurt anyone around. It is usually prevented, especially you are a religious person and you stated devoted in faith. I also felt her side, when you talk about what had happened, she doesn't know she's being put to a discussion like this and every one around the world when they see this post. They gonna react differently and expresses their point of views. Sometimes we are being put to test, we reacted immediately without knowing their side.Officially publicized the situation, even though we don't know the truth. Even us we acted inappropriately toward others. As I've said I don't judge people of whatever their actions but due to demanding environment, we are not aware we hurt peoples feeling. I do believe mothers knows best,though her daughter knows her attitudes,she must understand and respect the decision of her mother. And if it is very wrong,You can speak out in calmly manner without triggering others.