Criticize. Praise. Wait.

@didi13 (2926)
Romania
January 27, 2012 3:13am CST
I fail to realize that mobilizes us stronger attitude. Many times, I think that people are urged to speak (write, talk, gossip) when they are unhappy with something. More ... I noticed that there are people you do not get the silence than anger. No words, do not intervene, something not present unless the indignant. And then feel the need to contradict. Or injury. When talking about interventions on the Internet, those who protest not even give your real name. When we talk about the events that bring us face to face, protesters often fall into two camps: those who say that in front of them dissatisfied, and those who gossip in the back, trying to instigate them to others. I have some, but more meetings with people who move from place to goodwill, admiration, desire the sincere conversation. By nature of my job, I'm so lucky that meet nice people who shared something that will tell their stories and enjoy reading them on my own, that are found in amazement, pending, rebellion, the emotions that I have already lived and had the courage to talk about them. I get every day of my life that make me blush praise and always seem exaggerated, but return thanks with gratitude, those whom I made my answer is, thus confirming me that my life has meaning . But beyond the two clear categories of people who come to meet you or give you your answer as correct or contradict you, I see well often unfairly represented a category of people who will not speak at all. Which are expected tomorrow and wants to theorize without, locked in silence, in a hope or expectation of one who can not get anything. And if you do not know how can I tell if there are more people willing to criticize than happy to give you the right, I think I can assess that, unfortunately, most are those who do not want to meet new people much. Not want to theorize. Who live their lives and expect that one day, come on its own meanings. Philosophy. Lonely. Brilliant. Or, simply, those who have not yet managed to change them in our friends. For now ..
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@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
31 Jan 12
I find that people in general criticize. It must be in the humans nature to do so. As for being praised, well, not everyone is so willing to do that. Waiting seems to be a requirement of life in general. People gossip for lack of better conversation. Anger and arguments are being sparked all the time. It starts with ignorance. Also, in my experience, people can not handle the truth. When ever they hear the truth about themselves, they automatically take the defensive. Then, like you said, there are those that instigate, tantalize and egg others on to start trouble. And I believe that is for pure personal enjoyment. I am the quiet one, I am the one that stands back and observes and listens. I watch it all unfold.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
1 Feb 12
Yes, we live in an age that speaks much, so-called era of communication. And so it is community! Any anyway, anytime. There are few people who choose to remain silent, most people choose to speak. What is fashionable to talk (even becomes a necessity, if you practice these habits too much)? To criticize, to gossip, to give us their opinion, to disparage (in our minds we thought that this silence with some facts, not slander anyone), to slander and sincerely praise or false, depending on the situation. Blessed are those who have come to measure balance, so to speak only when you need and tell you exactly how to be, and quiet rest. Thanks for response.
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@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
5 Feb 12
You're welcome for the response. And thank you for the BR. Unlike years past, the world we live in now is much more active. With technology being what it is, it makes it much more easy to communicate then before. When I was growing up, I wish they had this technology. It seems now to me that communication back then was prehistoric. I know it sounds funny, but even though we did live in a more advanced world then our parents did, it now seems old fashioned.