I miss her so much!

@Lunar01 (151)
United States
January 27, 2012 5:40pm CST
A little background: I recently meet the girl I like in high school again after 2 years. We're both in college now. We've been talking with each other a lot this past winter break. I think I beginning to like her really seriously. Unfortunately, we're not able to see each other a lot because she had work during the break. Now school started but our schedules conflict with each other and I have an internship. Even though I really want to see her, that's not possible. So I'm a little bit depressed because even though we don't live far from each other, finding the time so we can just sit down and talk is really tough. I wish I can take her out on a date at a nice place or we can just take a leisure walk around the park. If you have experienced time away from the one you love, please tell me how you dealt with it? I feel everything is a lot less interesting and fun without her next to me.
8 responses
@shrike (123)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
hi! to add some, don't worry, if you were meant for each other, no matter what happen, you will ends up together, but you need to bear for it, you mention that you too are studying, perhaps it is for your own good. and just do your best to give her time to show that you really like here and i guess maybe, if possible not just like but you love here.
@Lunar01 (151)
• United States
28 Jan 12
I understand what you mean. To meet her again after 2 years and then to start talking with each other just like it was in high school is such a coincidence. And I won't be missing her so much that I give up on what I'm doing. I take my academics seriously and she does too so we put our priorities on studying. I'm too young to say I know what love is but I hope one day I will be able to say that I love her honestly.
@shrike (123)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
then you are too pretty good, making your studies as your first priority is a good decision, true love can waits. as you've said you are still young. good luck to your studies..
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
27 Jan 12
wow linar, sounds like you've been bitten by the love bug, I can imagine how lonely you are without being able to see her but just think that when you do see her its going to be twice as nice... It hard to believe that you don't live that far apart and still can't get a moment to see each...I think you need to recalculate . Oh does she feel the same as you do...maybe she can find the time to see you..thats if she feels the same which is what you need to find out.. Good luck!!!!
@Lunar01 (151)
• United States
28 Jan 12
Yeah I think so too. It's really tough because I think about her a lot but I guess in a way, "absence makes the heart grow fonder."
@anncherry (406)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
It'd be great if you can text message each other from time to time so that you would feel each other's presence even though it's hard for you to meet. It's even possible that both of you will get addicted to it since you'd be discussing your simple daily activities to each other. You can even flirt thru text! Ehehe! ;P Anyway, it's a good way to keep in touch, so that she will still feel that you are just "there" even though you can't see each other physically. :)
• India
28 Jan 12
Ohh man!! Personally speaking, Missing someone is the best way your heart tells you that you love someone..Dont worry Some day everything will make perfect sense , so for now laugh at the confusion,smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason, If she was meant to be yours then she will be ,nothing can stop that. Jus know that she is yours and nothing can change that,Continue with your daily life but never loose the sadness that you feel for her now...Want to know why??? Its coz true love is rare, one in 90000 perhaps, and that you are one of the lucky ones.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
Oh, wow! I just hope that you find time to get her out on a date and get that feeling expressed to her! Good luck!
@Luciano63 (157)
• France
28 Jan 12
write to her, receive answers and try your harder way to see her at least for a coffee. You have all ingredients for a real love story, be seductive like I am present even when you do not see me! However do not over do it unless she will desappear!good luck
@Mashnn (4501)
28 Jan 12
It is always happening especially nowadays that people who love or care for each other spend most of their time apart. One thing that I truly believe work and is the one of the most important thing in a relationship is communication. Try to text or even call her as much as possible and I believe that soon, you will find ways to spare some time for each other.
@dianluzi (48)
• China
28 Jan 12
I'm in college too.I have never been in love with someone.I don't know why.I really envy those who are fall in love.Many friends of mine like you,Lunar01,you can call her more.Best wishes to you girlfriend and you. My English is not good.My English expression is not good.I try my best.I need practice.If my sentence has syntax error,please help me.