Never trust someone beyond the limit

India
January 28, 2012 4:18am CST
I've a message for everyone following this thread.. Never trust someone beyond the limit or you'll regret it later.. Be it friends, love or anyone. Because the moment you trust someone beyond the limit you'll start to experience nasty things and will eventually become a heartbroken loner like me. So trust people within your limit and save your heart and don't be like me..... Cheers!
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• India
28 Jan 12
This is sad...When you dont trust a person,its right that you do not give them the chance to hurt you,But neither do you give them the chance to help u.... If u dont trust anyone ,then whats the point of life???... Its not about not trusting anyone,its about learning whom to trust. If someone you trusted betrayed you and you became sad, it just means to show that you should not have told him anything. Happiness is like a butterfly, If u try to capture it,it will elude you but if u turn your attention to other small and soft things ,it will come and sit silently on your shoulder.
• India
29 Jan 12
Yes i do... But to be pleased with ones limits is a wretched state.You will never know your limits till u push yourselves to them and in the matter of trust ,its sorta like a black hole...never ending.....A good guy will know his limits,but a great guy will know he has none...... Limits may be necessary in the beginning but as time progresses,these limits should vanish,It is only then can you truly say , you have someone for you in life. I dont want a 1000 persons to cry when i die,jus 1 person to die when i cry is all i need and should be all you need too.... As far as i deciphered, you are going on the right track,learning through experience...tat is the best way....Continue...Move on and dont let stupid betrayals act as a demon against u......:) :)
• India
28 Jan 12
I think you've not read well what I've said.. It's not about trusting someone or not trusting anyone.. It's about not trusting anyone beyond the limit.. I guess You believe in limits, don't you??
• India
28 Jan 12
Get trusted with anyone beyond the limit may be dangerous in anytime. Beware of strangers and much posers.
• India
28 Jan 12
Also add lovers in the list, because that is the most dangerous. Not everyone has strong heart. And when heart breaks it costs a lot for treatment..
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
28 Jan 12
With human nature the way it is and being hurt myself by the closest of friends and family I have learnt never to trust anyone 100%, it is sad but people are not always what they seem...
• India
28 Jan 12
You are absolutely right. That is exactly what I mean.. It's not a bad thing to trust someone 100%, but things turn bad when it's broken somehow. So why give a chance.. Life is not much different from the game of football, where a team must have a strong defense(and attack, and mid-field and so on) to win. Having at least 1% doubt in mind gives you a strong defense..
@eunife (165)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
i'm sorry to hear that. i agree with you. anything that goes beyond the limit is dangerous in as much as something that is not enough. It is hard to give this "right amount" but we have to try.
@ajk111 (2495)
28 Jan 12
i disagree. i give 100% loyalty nd trust to all my friends and loved ones. i have been hurt many times but refuse to change as that would make me bitter and twisted. always remember, you have not lost a good friend, they have.
• India
28 Jan 12
I agree with the last line.. "I've not lost anything..but they have.."
• Kenya
28 Jan 12
It is unfortunate that the people we trust and who know us best are the ones who hurt us most. I agree with you, never trust beyond a limit.
• India
28 Jan 12
yeah i had a bad experience trustin a person beyond the limit. we must not give ourselves away. tht can be really dangerous