what kind of feeling you do not want to experience?
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
January 28, 2012 8:21am CST
Just asking all of you mylotters about the subject title... What do you think is the feeling you do not want to ever feel yourself? like feeling taken for granted, feeling betrayed, feeling unimportant, etc? And why do you think this is the feeling you do not want?
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7 responses
@CTHanum (8233)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 12
Hi Chiyo!
It's the negative and bad feelings for sure.(^^)
Who wants to feel bad and negatives all the time?? If we got to choose between good and bad everyone will go for good right? But I can't choose any of it because it always two sides for everything.Good is partnership with bad, and positive with negative~ We want it or not that is the fact we need to face and we should experience it so that we can learn lessons from it.(^^)
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
30 Jan 12
I think betrayal is the hardest thing to deal with. Not only do you feel as if the other person lied to you, you lose face and feel like a fool. It's a low blow to the ego and makes it very hard to trust anyone again no matter what the situation.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
I don't like to be taken for granted. I don't like to be ignored. And I don't like to feel abandoned. The last one is the worst feeling I can have. If I feel abandoned I would pity myself and I don't like feeling miserable. If I pity myself I would feel that the world pities me, too. And worst, some people would probably be laughing at me for being abandoned. 
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
13 Jan 13
hi secretbear, that is the kind of feeling i do not want to be taken for granted as well... being abandoned because that is the feeling as if you are not wanted, right? i hope you don't take pity on yourself.. though be confident and hope you have that strength to overcome these. thank you for your response. :D see you around the site!
@neelia_lyn (2003)
• Philippines
28 Jan 12
I hate the feeling of being shamed in front of so many people, especially if the people doing that thought they knew what they were doing and that they are perfect. 
It makes you lose confidence in yourself.
Happy weekend!
It makes you lose confidence in yourself.
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@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
28 Jan 12
I don't like to be abused.
I don't care what people say or think about me since I don't need them all as a friend. This besides of the fact it says way more about that person as it says about me.
I don't like to be abused because it happen to me way too frequently. This all in combination with all kind of lies (people make up a lot without feeling quilty just to get what they want. They don't care at all if you (and your children) are in big need because you helped them out). Abusing someone is one of the worst things you can do.
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@Mashnn (4501)
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29 Jan 12
I do not let myself go to the extend of feeling any of the above. I usually care less of what others do or say which makes it easy for me as I do not have to look after others to accept me or not. I stick to what I know is right and avoid people who misuse others or take others for granted.
