Are you the one?

It is the way we defensive our opinion, absolutely.

We are different individuals. We can expresses our view of points and say what we are trying to say in a calmly manner. Being opinionated accompanied with rightful comments makes us to grow. Most of the time when other gave their perspective about the situation or about you. I listen and give time to reflect myself, assessing where I made mistakes and how can i improve so that others could say to me Ive change in a better way. When people say something, though sometimes they say because they want to offend others or others concern at you. You know already what is right and wrong.

However some are still egoistic, why they? What we should do in facing this kind problem?

people is make different. if people same. we can life in world, friend. people have egoistic maybe because he/she have some problem. we must try to make he/she know if in the world we can't egoistic

Open-minded is the key of success, out of arguments and in making friends too. Not everyone are listen to other advise or suggestion.