finding friends

@megh4u (372)
Alpharetta, Georgia
February 6, 2012 12:09am CST
Hi, Have you ever tried to make friends in new city, I have weird experience since I was out of town last week and I try to make formal contacts but people don't try to hear me even they don't seems to interest in talking to some anonymous guy, so I have spend whole week alone roaming here and there. what you try to do when reach new place does this happen with you?
4 responses
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
I wouldn't be surprised by this. When an anonymous guy approach me and start introducing himself or start talking about something, I get nervous. Different ugly thoughts start running in my mind. I guess this is because the world is full of unkind people and we never know who are the real good ones and who are the bad ones. Maybe I would ask one friend or relative to introduce me to somebody to start a friendship chain
@megh4u (372)
• Alpharetta, Georgia
6 Feb 12
that's not a problem with me I am quite straight forward guy...and talks directly with no hesitation, it won't matter whether I am talking to guy or girl.
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
It is fine as long as you know the person or if you are in one community or organization but say, you just approach someone while walking in the street just to make friends, it is quite scary actually.. Or for me at least..
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 12
I have found new friends during staying at youth hostels and backpacker on my travels. I know another place to meet new friends in at a gym or swimming pool. I made friends at a course I did in Spanish level 1. I am very keen on making new friends. I hope that you will make lots of lovely friends in your new city.
@megh4u (372)
• Alpharetta, Georgia
9 Feb 12
thanks maximax8.
• China
6 Feb 12
Just travelling,when we travelling,we may have a lot of chances to make friends.
@megh4u (372)
• Alpharetta, Georgia
6 Feb 12
this is the first time I traveled outside my town alone, so I feel weird if no one is ready to talk or give time.
• Philippines
9 Feb 12
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Friendships are fragile things and require as much care in handling as any other fragile and precious thing. Lets treasure all our friends!