"Beauty Is The Best Revenge"

Philippines
February 8, 2012 1:42am CST
When your heart is full of hatred, your first idea is to seek for vengeance, right? But I myself won't gonna do that kind of stuff. Instead of thinking and planning a revenge for someone, It would be better If I will make it as a way to improve myself for the better. The more you ruin your enemy, The more you ruin yourself. What are your thought about it?
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6 responses
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
hi! there, i definitely agree with you vengeance doesn't give you any good. And vengeance is for bitter people only. :) i was once hurt by my ex-boyfriend good thing that vengeance didn't sprung up in my mind. What i did instead, i include him in my prayers that someday soon he'll be also blessed.
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Wonderful! You will be blessed too!
@yahnee (1243)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
You are absolutely right. Why should we allow ourselves to be affected with pain and heartache when we can use our time to make ourselves beautiful. This is really the best form of revenge.
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Definitely! This is the best way to make ourselves better.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
8 Feb 12
yes I agree with you 100%, the best way is to get out there and show them what they are missing in not having you as a friend...their bad luck, you have a nice attitude to life.
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Exactly! How I wish that all people in the world do have this kind of thought.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
12 Feb 12
I wish I could be this way, I wish I could use my energy to work on myself, instead of wanting revenge, revenge for me is satisfying, but I do admit to taking it out on the wrong people, I never had full closure on the shi*te that happened to me as a child, and going through abusive relationships, I wanted revenge on them, I can't get it, and yes I do waste time on regret and wanting revenge. Having the power to reject others is revenge for me.
@kedves (728)
8 Feb 12
revenge wo .. is there anything stronger when you are scorned but a loved one.. but you are right revenge in the end only hurts you because it keeps the pain alive and stops you moving on the best way for me personally is i have the initial outburst to tell the otehr person what i think of them .. then i turn around i walk away and i forget them. i do not let them run my life and dictate my life by keeping thoughts of revenge. as others have said the best for of revenge is to forget them and move on with your life .. after all you can possibly miss something amazing because you are too blinkered in your obsession for revenge ..
@TriGyn03 (84)
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
good idea of not ruining yourself...i guess the person you mean here is your ex boyfriend, that's just my thought....but i think revenge in any way is not a good thing to do and any form of revenge means you still attached to that person...if someone hurt you so bad just pray for them....it would be the best weapons against any trespassers...
• Philippines
8 Feb 12
Your guess is right. It was for my ex- boyfriend.