You are dependent on acceptance, you know?

@didi13 (2926)
Romania
February 10, 2012 11:27am CST
Many things in life we do because that would be or because someone says so. Small I was addicted opinions. And so I left and now. Some addicts. People who inject us with the opinion of those around us, about us. We no longer live for us. We live for those around us. We eagerly a new compliment you hunt, we are ready to sacrifice for it. And so the days go by, we are more tired and more dependent. End up doing things that I thought that we never do. And because we do not like, but because we care what people think around us. We care so much that I gave to our pleasure, for their pleasures. We abandoned our principles to their principles. I stopped us live our lives, and we let others live what should we live. Do not go somewhere because we want to be seen there. We made ??friends with some people because we are ashamed of what others might say. Do not dare get out of the box we closed because we are afraid of world reaction. Many people lose valuable because they are too dependent on the opinion of society. For whom you live? Why do certain things? What for you? You are dependent on others opinion? Their acceptance? Or live independently of how people feel around you? Stop and search your little life. For whom you live? Whose life you have it? You have to be who never manage to be as long as you keep the teeth of accepting others. Cheer, rise and conquer! This is because you have to live out of the box!
3 responses
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
10 Feb 12
You can not please everyone you have I make a dissision on who you want to please. If people can not accept you the way you are then forget about them. I only worry about being accepted by the people I feel matter the most. You gotta live the way you chose
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
10 Feb 12
"You gotta live the way you chose"...very true... Thanks for response.
@nzalheart (2338)
• India
17 Sep 12
Hi didi13, It is really an encouraging opinion. This is the thing that has ever happened to each and every one of us. Its great that, You pointed it out and let us realize the fact. Everyone in this world is interconnected. When we live in this world, the act we do matters in the life of others and the act others do effects us too. This is interconnectedness. And when we are interconnected, we cannot just pop out of this interconnectivity and live for oneself. Even thought we try to live out of the box, it still affects the lives around us. We cannot stop people from thinking what they think. Some people may think we are stupid, we are wrong, but that doesn't matter. All that matters is how much we respect oneself and others. All that matters is how much are we able to accept the things and people as they are. I understand what are you trying to convey. Its about letting go and be happy. Cheer, rise and conquer!!! Happy mylotting...
• India
17 Sep 12
This is something what is called group norm. Our opinions are basically formed on the opinion of a group. We are basically defensive in nature. We are worried about taking risks. We are worried if others would blame us. So we chose the safe path, i.e we listen to others. Even though at heart we might want to do something different.