The feeling of hatred
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
February 12, 2012 10:55am CST
Is not that each of you have known the feeling of hatred?
Whether it is to someone who will hurt, be it something to despise, to injustice, or violence against ...
Hatred is a destructive sense of self-punishment, irritable, painful, dark mind and we take our chance to be happy and calm.
Hatred makes good house with envy, greed, stupidity and paranoia.
Our hatred is often influenced by other people, right? Racial and ethnic hatred are expressed in general.
I see that we live in a world that promotes hatred by all the negative posts, all criticism, all incitement to cretinism and it's not surprising ... kindness, tolerance, intelligence, love, are in constant amount in the world, but their opposites are available in unlimited quantities ...
In some cases hatred based on our own defects, exaggerated ... Our subconscious is smarter / honest than conscious and will make us hate in others what is wrong with us, so you can feel better ...
It happens much evil in the world and people will disappoint us, but should not allow anyone to degrade our souls making us hate.
If you upload your souls with hatred, you will not have room for love. Is it worth someone to take you right to the best feeling in the world - love? Do not let hatred becomes a way of thinking, action and existence. Stay away from those who spread hatred.
Look for those that have hurt and love those who deserve!
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4 responses
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
12 Feb 12
hi didi
I dont know why but I have been reading some your discussions and most of them are about love and hatred. No, I am not pointing this out, it is merely an observation. I wonder what gets such discussions from you
Anyways, sorry, it was too personal on the first of my responses to your discussions.
I have learned to love whom I used to hate. Today, I dont hate anyone, I love all and respect all. This has been possible because, I have learned to live, learned to treasure the life, and have set myself a goal - To make a face smile each day.
Maybe, my illness or the confinement to home, but today, I feel that hate is just a vice, and at end it is not going to leave a healthy impression on anyone. It also (as you rightly say) - is a destructive sense of self-punishment, irritable, painful thing to happen
Anyways, sorry, it was too personal on the first of my responses to your discussions.
I have learned to love whom I used to hate. Today, I dont hate anyone, I love all and respect all. This has been possible because, I have learned to live, learned to treasure the life, and have set myself a goal - To make a face smile each day.
Maybe, my illness or the confinement to home, but today, I feel that hate is just a vice, and at end it is not going to leave a healthy impression on anyone. It also (as you rightly say) - is a destructive sense of self-punishment, irritable, painful thing to happen @didi13 (2926)
• Romania
12 Feb 12
I think you're right, I do not know why.
Returning to our discussion, I think, even "evil" is a necessary element in the fight for survival but I need to explain the feeling of hatred. What internal mechanism motivated hatred? What helps us in our integration in this universe governed by rational things. When something can hurt us appears fear, useful survival through physiological changes it induces, but helps us hate? It is the desire to eliminate a potential threat? But we hate those whom I loved, and our expectations were wrong? How appears this reversal of polarity? Or, to remain rational, what helps this?
To hate is synonymous with the enemy, so the feeling appears about relations of territory / property / social position ... But why hate people who do not have anything broken?
Thanks for response.
Returning to our discussion, I think, even "evil" is a necessary element in the fight for survival but I need to explain the feeling of hatred. What internal mechanism motivated hatred? What helps us in our integration in this universe governed by rational things. When something can hurt us appears fear, useful survival through physiological changes it induces, but helps us hate? It is the desire to eliminate a potential threat? But we hate those whom I loved, and our expectations were wrong? How appears this reversal of polarity? Or, to remain rational, what helps this?
To hate is synonymous with the enemy, so the feeling appears about relations of territory / property / social position ... But why hate people who do not have anything broken?
Thanks for response.@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
12 Feb 12
Quite true. As a kid, (days were safer), I believed in the animals theory - no one will hurt me unless I have hurt him. Today, I realize that the world has become too scary, and there is no sane reason where anyone is safe, it can be a terrorist attack or even a speeding car. Today, we start distrusting first, even the known faces seem strange at times.
Well, to be honest, there is always a chance of error in judgement involved, also the fact that many a times our expectations from our beloved ones creates distance between us. This can be lessened if we start to live with lesser of expectations and believing and respecting the individuality of the other person involved.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
12 Feb 12
Very true what you say. Any human being is characterized by three major carriers: instinct, feeling and reason. In turn, they have subdivisions. Hatred is a feeling. We all, in a certain proportion. Is a strong feeling that once triggered "destroy" the balance factors of our psyche. Can a humanist, a sadistic killer (wars for example) or can generate self-destruction.
We got in us, as an alternative primitive., But can be controlled with little WILL.
Thanks for response.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
13 Feb 12
It's obvious that many of the wrong doings which happen in the world nowadays are fueled by intense hatred,which can manifest in a huge diversity of forms,and often there's a thin line between love and hate,so it's easy to move from one side to the other,from love to deep hatred and then to other actions which can end tragically.I think hatred is deeply rooted in ourselves and we have to fight it,we don't have to let it invade our souls,we have to look for the good things in life and when we feel sad and rejected,there's almost always something that could make us smile and help us diminish those black thoughts and negative feelings that otherwise will accumulate inside us until we're no longer able to control them and we set them free in an outburst of rage towards others and even towards people who are completely innocent and have done nothing wrong to us.That's why I think it's very important that,whenever we feel that stress is becoming bigger and bigger and we become angrier and angrier we must take a break,enjoy a nice view and try to calm ourselves.We definitely must not let hatred control us because it would bring us nothing but misery and pain,and we deserve to enjoy life and make it more pleasant for us and for those who are close to us.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
14 Feb 12
True. Feelings, our feelings define us greatly. Often not know what motivates us, we need courage to look to ourselves, we fear what we discover. We are beings so insignificant, and we can not realize how deprived, are important for the overall picture of the universe.
Hate feeling so bitter and destructive. Hatred that we transform thoughts, we interpret every gesture, makes us vulnerable and unsympathetic.Therefore, I totally agree with you as,"we definitely must not let hatred control us because it would bring us nothing but misery and pain,and we deserve to enjoy life and make it more pleasant for us and for those who are close to us".
Thanks for response.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
14 Feb 12
There are times where we are going to find ourselves giving into some self destructive emotions. It is a rather scary situation to say the very least. There are times where it seems like it is extremely easy to hate. Of course, it does seem easy because sadly it really is going to be easy to really just give into hatred, to really fold into those emotions.
Negative thoughts can rule a lot of people. The world can have some dismal places to say the very least. There are times where the worst case scenario is just going to pop right into our mind to say the very least. Times where a lot of bad things are going to occur, but we need to just take a step back and take a deep breath, before we tend to get the ball rolling down the wrong path.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
15 Feb 12
Don't be so down on hatred. As a matter of fact, hatred is a good thing. It is also a protective mechanism. Now I am not saying you should take hatred to a level where it does not belong to go. Like killing someone. I am talking about the hatred that makes you stay away from those people or that certain person. It protects you. Also, it does have a way of helping you not trust very easily. Although people might perceive hatred as an evil thing, or something that hurts people, it is not. There is that positive side of it like I just explained. Any emotion could be deadly or dangerous.
