how does your husband shows his love to you?
By shrike
@shrike (123)
Philippines
6 responses
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
Hi Shrike!
How does my husband shows his love to me... let me think
Well its difficult to think! haha Specially that my husband is not a shoy type and maybe e both have our different ways of showing our love for each other. Sometimes my expectations is not what he's showing that's why I get frustrated, and even makes me think that he don't love me as much. lol! But that was before.
Now, he's still not that showy and not vocal to his feelings but I just feel that he loves me truly, I think the fact that e are still living together happily even if e don't have kids yet for 8 years is already a great proof of our love for each other. And of course there are little things that he do that makes me feel his love for me.
And the best thing that he's doing that makes me feel that he loves me truly and that shows his love for me is by loving my family too.
How does my husband shows his love to me... let me think
Well its difficult to think! haha Specially that my husband is not a shoy type and maybe e both have our different ways of showing our love for each other. Sometimes my expectations is not what he's showing that's why I get frustrated, and even makes me think that he don't love me as much. lol! But that was before.
Now, he's still not that showy and not vocal to his feelings but I just feel that he loves me truly, I think the fact that e are still living together happily even if e don't have kids yet for 8 years is already a great proof of our love for each other. And of course there are little things that he do that makes me feel his love for me.
And the best thing that he's doing that makes me feel that he loves me truly and that shows his love for me is by loving my family too. @shrike (123)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
hi ckyera!
i am happy to know that behinds that thing you and your husband is still living together happily. and i wish that it will until ever after.
i do have some simple expectation from him but that simple cannot be fulfilled and i am very disappointed with it. imagine, he tells you to go somewhere or do somewhere but when the time comes, he just said he forgot. it hurts.. sometimes i even think he doesn't love me so sometimes i can't keep myself from asking him if he does love me. he always answer me yes but how can he when a simple thing that can make me happy he don't even bother to do so. well.. maybe, i just put in mind that he is that and i must understand, so now, i don't look forward for him to do things to make me happy. sometimes i felt so alone and lonely..
@cash4cards (140)
• United States
15 Feb 12
Agreed... alot of people just think that should be done
but my family is hard to deal with so thats a big show
of love...lol
@cash4cards (140)
• United States
15 Feb 12
Hes not very vocal an lovey dovey. Sometimes it bumbs
ne out an i say somethin about it. but he said he was
Tought that a real man takes care of his family an that
he does. he goes to work every single day no matter how
sick or hurt he is. he makes sure the bills are paid an we
have everything we need..if we dont he makes it happen.
he took on a second job so i could be a stay at home mom
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
11 Mar 12
My husband always show his love to me by dating me in a fast food restaurant or he will leave his work just to be with me. He also listen to my non sense story. I see to him that sometimes he really feel bored about what i'm telling to him but he will do something what will look that he is interested in what i'm saying. I really appreciate the effort that he do.
@Mashnn (4501)
•
15 Feb 12
There are many ways that my husband shows love to me such as helping me to do housechores, cooking and serving me food, doing some surprise shopping for me, taking me out, providing me with whatever I need among others. I always thank God for giving me such a sweet husband.
@lekhya (819)
• India
15 Feb 12
WELL,
He shows love & concern by helping me in my household work.If i suffer with body pains he does some massage.He also takes me out to restaurants,so that i can take a leave from cooking.He does a lot to me.I can make a huge list like this.He helps me in several ways.T think he loves me.But i want him to be expressive instead.I likes to be practical.But i am quite emotional.Whatever he is good to me.
@cash4cards (140)
• United States
15 Feb 12
Me too i try not to complain..i do sometimes tho but its not who he is
@blink69nix0 (847)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
First of all, I have no husband or not engage. I'm hear to comment about your topic. based from my observation and my old friends who have partners. They show their love through actions and gifts. Some husband want to empress their partner by saying sweet words,kiss,hug and other affection thing. Others want to do it in action such as fidelity, trust, giving, respecting,loving them.
