Accepting Friends in Facebook..... your Ex-boyfriend.....

Philippines
February 17, 2012 10:16pm CST
Good day all mylotters, Each of us have many friends in facebook and many people are adding other people, but what if, one of the people is your Ex- boyfriend and he want him to be your friends in your facebook,Do you want to accept him to be your friends and allow him to know about your life because you know that facebook are in public and all your activity , adventures and all information about you, are there in facebook, Do you accept him? and why?
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18 responses
• Indonesia
18 Feb 12
Yes i will accept him,If my ex boyfriend add me in facebook.I will tell to him if i can find a better man than him now.So we can just be friend.but i dont want if talked about my past with him.Maybe not all of my activity he should know.Make him separate in facebook.Hope u enjoy ur day.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
25 Feb 12
Good idea of your, you accept me in Facebook please?
• Canada
18 Feb 12
I don't think there is anthing wrong with accepting an ex-boyfriend's friedship request on facebook as you can set the custom privacy settings to what you want to be visible of your profile/updates, etc to your bf. Hoever, if you think that this ex-bf can cause some sort of trouble in the futur then it is better to not add him on facebook and sometimes it is better to leave things in the past...
• United States
18 Feb 12
facebook, serious business. smh just accept him, who cares
@saphire539 (1641)
• United States
18 Feb 12
i think it depends on weather you are good friends still with your Ex,I have my Ex-Husband as my friend on mine as we still get along and we have kids together and grand kids together.
@Blondie2222 (27915)
• United States
18 Feb 12
My ex boyfriend is a friend of mine on facebook, we are still friends and he has a new girlfriend and i have a boyfriend, we never had any grudges against each other. I guess everyone has differen't reviews about being friends with ex's but me unless something happens then I still remain friends with them. I mean there's quite a few i'm not friends with but the most recent ex's i am. I don't talk to them often but here and there we do chat and see how each of our lives are and what not.
• United States
18 Feb 12
I say accept him, so you can show him how you moved on with your life, and how happy you are to be with someone else. It will eat him up. It is called Karma, and Karma can be a pain sometimes. That's all I got to say about it.
@MissPiggy (1742)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 12
Of course I would allow them. There's nothing wrong having them in our list in facebook. I have 3 ex-boyfriends and they're all in my list. :) I'm still fine with two of them and I indeed keep the other one there so he can see that I'm still happy without him. We never speak or chat anymore, but he doesn't want to remove me as well. So I'm cool with that. :D
• United States
18 Feb 12
no ex is an ex for a reason if he is on there he could lie about you threaten a new relation ship and so much more no one should have an ex on their friends list ever
• United States
18 Feb 12
no your ex is an ex for a reason he might start harassing you or telling lies if you have anew boyfriend he might threaten him. never good to have your ex on there or the person your with should not have an ex on their list either
@barkah69 (96)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 12
Hi friend, I think we must consider what benefit in the future or it will come conflict, if we add ex-boyfriend. Because we will minimazed problem and make good relationship. I think like my reason
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
18 Feb 12
one of my ex is my friend in facebook. my husband is aware about it cause he sometimes open my account.
@enelym001 (8323)
• Philippines
18 Feb 12
I think I won't - depends on how we end up the relationship. If we ended up being friends and not hate each other then I might accept him as a friend. Otherwise, I won't. There's no need for him to know my activities and my life.
@humairaku (2039)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 12
I think it's okay to accept our ex BF or GF as our friend on Facebook. I also did it. I make friend with all of my ex BF on Facebook. So far our relation is just fine. I have got married but there's one of them are still single. I sometimes mock him why he keeps single till today (he's about 32). we also share anything in life but we know that we couldn't be together again. we had ever been so close and we ended our relation because of something that's why our relation today could run so well cos we know each other. if we have no bad intention in accepting him as our friend on Facebook, it's okay to accept him. Facebook is private but it's okay to share it though there's an ex BF there cos we have our own life now.
@bhonti (1247)
• Philippines
18 Feb 12
I have one ex-boyfriend and he is a friend of mine in Facebook. I think we became Facebook buddies after breaking up, because there was no Facebook then when we were together. We are now in good terms.
18 Feb 12
Yes, I would accept. Actually, all of them are my friends in Facebook. We just interacted in facebook but not personally yet.
• United States
18 Feb 12
One of my ex's requested me and I excepted his friendship. I am not on facebook daily so it does not matter who is my friend.
@shylade (3135)
• Philippines
18 Feb 12
Facebook now has a privacy feature that you can edit so that you can moderate what your friends can see in your timeline. you can select friends that can view your whole profile, updates etc. for me, there's nothing wrong with being friends again with your EX. after all, you have love him before and maybe it is a God's way of making you friends again. but if you think you don't want to make him updated with your life then don't accept him. it is really up to you.
@lilaclady (28224)
• Australia
18 Feb 12
I think this is the only part of Facebook that worries me, I think being in touch with ex's can be trouble in a way, if you are in another relationship it can be a little confronting for youe partner for you to be back in touch with ex's even if there is trust within the relationship, I think past relationships are best left in the past...