boyfriend to husband thing? How is it?
@arianne_mae_2012 (243)
February 19, 2012 9:12pm CST
Should a woman treat her boyfriend the same way she should treat her husband?
7 responses
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Feb 12
Yes hunibuni, there are changes after marriage. If these changes do not affect the relation there is no problem.
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
i should i agree to you both hunibani & krajibg. cause if these changes will affect the relationship that would be another story for both partners. temptation will then play its part and etc.
Happy lotting everyone! :)
@no_ming (137)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
hello arianne,
A woman should not treat her boyfriend as a husband. they don't know if they are really meant for each other till the end. If the man, proposed her to be her wife and promised her that he will love, respect, and trust forever then it is the time that a girl can treat her boyfriend as a husband.. A wife, will give everything for his husband as well as the husband will give everything for his wife. A bf must have a limitation same as the gf.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
20 Feb 12
No with boy friends you cant apply the same rules as you would to a hubby. They are free birds who will move on with their lives and are not committed to any one like a hubby. Friends shall be treated casually unlike hubbies
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
Treating a boyfriend same to a husband thing do depends on how she wanted to treat her partner that she feels comfortable with.. Mostly, women do treat their boyfriend as a husband maybe because they foresee marrying them, or they wanted to give their partner an idea of the future if they will go on till marriage. Though, boyfriend and girlfriend relationship must have certain limitations that will distinguish the differences when entered to marriage stage. Some women do prefer to just selectively limit their relationship as to boyfriend and girlfriend only because they think that things may change in the future or not even decided marrying the guy.. I guess it is better to have certain limitations so that your partner will always have many surprises as you go on with the relationship you have.. Since, boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is not an assurance that you will be partners for lifetime unless you have vowed for marriage.. It is better to have a reservations for yourself rather left yourself without any when a relationship has ended.. Giving limitations or reservations for yourself does not mean you do not love your partner.. It is in some way you will able to know if your partner do respect your views or decisions in your relationship that have a give and take instances when both of you have agreed mutually and given that respect for both growth..
@jhuddith (222)
• Philippines
20 Feb 12
For me, in order for a relationship to prosper, below tips should be followed:
1. When you are in boy-girl relationship, you should treat your boyfriend/girlfriend as your husband/wife, and
2. If you are already married, you should treat your husband/wife as your boyfriend/girlfriend!
1. Why? Because, if you are still int the boy/girl relationship, it feels terrific when you treat each other as already wife/husband as with this relationship, it requires you to be more patient, to be more appreciative, more caring, accept the other for what he/she is and also bring out the best in your partner...
2. Why? Because, if you are married, it feels great to still treat each other as still boy-girlfriend because when you were in that relationship, you tend to enjoy each other company even if you don't have the luxury of time, each meet-up or date seems to be exciting.. you see the both of you spending the lifetime with each other...
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Feb 12
It depends on the status of the relation they had in the past and in the present. If the woman (wife, I guess) treats her hubby as boyfriend this is more recommendable for there is more happiness and openness.








