Immature.
By desertrose16
@desertrose16 (600)
United States
February 25, 2012 4:29pm CST
I knew this guy who was too demanding and very immature. He is in his early twenty's. He contradicted himself everyday. He wanted more than what most people would have. He treated others like he is better than them. He expects everything to go his way all the time and when he does not get his way, he stabs those who he thinks betrayed him in the back. He has a very hard lesson to learn about treating people the way he does. I am glad he is no longer a friend. He also made demands that when I granted what he wanted he immediately apologized only to act the same way over and over and over again.
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@sid556 (30953)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Hi Desertrose,
Yes, I think we all have known people like that at one time or another. For some reason, they feel the world owes them or maybe they are just very insecure. I honestly don't know what causes a person to be like that but I know that as long as everyone caters to them, they don't change. When people all stop giving into their demands and stop tolerating their bad behavior and they find themselves alone with no friends, then and only then, they might start to realize that maybe they need to change their behavior. People like that seem to have never learned how to be a good friend. You have to be a good friend in order to have good friends.
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@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
26 Feb 12
Well that "friend" of yours is what I call the common human being. The world is full of them. Abusers, selfish people who only care about themselves. But fact is: as long as you accept them to treat you that way they won't change. You give them what they want so they get rewarded for their behaviour. Better is to punish them and raise them just like we do with little kids. But I guess most people are way too scared to stand up to such a person.
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@megamatt (14290)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Indeed there are many people in the world like this sadly. And some of them are much older. Into their thirties, forties, and beyond. It rather defies all logical belief when you think about it, but it really makes perfect sense. And some people, if they have learned any lessons from the consequences of that behavior, it never really has stuck.
It really can frustrate anyone who has to deal people like this. But they are more than common, more than one could really expect. Frustrating for sure, but it is just the types of people I distance myself right from. People apologize sure, but apologies tend to ring hollow when it is obvious no lessons whatsoever were learned.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
26 Feb 12
i think he takes some times to learn how to behave with other people and how to live life.it is very annoying when someone behave like this and don't want to understand the real thing.they always wanted everything but don't want to work hard to achieve that.well one day when he will experience any lesion then he will automatically change his views towards life.
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