The inability

@didi13 (2926)
Romania
February 28, 2012 8:55am CST
How to help, to be really useful to someone next to you when you do than to stumble at every step of your own weaknesses? When facing problems to someone else, you realize what you just hit the front are your problems, you think well controlled? Can you tell someone - look, do so, that's the way - when you do not, than, winding paths wander the side? Yes, I feel I'm walking around in a labyrinth of inabilitys ...
2 responses
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
28 Feb 12
I think that if we really want to help others we must first understand and accept our own inabilities and assume them;we must realize that we're not superheroes,that we all have problems and we commit mistakes.Once we are aware of our own limitations,we must not despair because we also have strengths and abilities that can be useful to others,sop the fact that we have our problems shouldn't stop us from trying to help others.Nobody's perfect,they say,and I completely agree,but we mustn't let our imperfections rule our lives.We must fight them and try to become better,and a good way to do that is to try to help others.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
29 Feb 12
Usually, the problems of others can be viewed with a certain detachment given the lack of involvement (direct) of oneself, which allows more or less objective analysis and find viable solutions. The good news is that third parties when issues are confused with their own solutions found for these people suddenly become our own solutions to problems. I agree with you,if we really want to help others we must first understand and accept our own inabilities and we must fight them and try to become better. Thanks for response.
@megamatt (14290)
• United States
1 Mar 12
I do hate that so very much, when I do want to really help people but I find that for some reason, I am more of a liability than an asset. It is just one of those days, where I just feel that nothing is going right but really perhaps I am a bit too ambition for my own good. Yet there is a sense of helplessness where I am going to try and struggle to help people and just fall right at the end, embarassing and exposing my own inabilities. Then again, many of us think that we know a bit more than we really do. That is just the cold, hard fact of the matter. Where we are just unable to help anyone and it is a crucial, crushing moment where we really think that everything is just going to spiral right out of our control to say the very least. I feel sometimes that I am helpless but sometimes there are just things that are beyond my own abilities.