Do men cry?

Bulgaria
February 28, 2012 2:24pm CST
Hello friends I want to ask you whether men cry when izashto and cry? very interesting because I always say is men are strong and they do not cry but I've seen how a man crying when it plenty of love from the pain of grief and anger. What you say about this?
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
28 Feb 12
? What makes you think men won't cry? How come you think men are stronger as women. since this is not true. It's proved women are way stronger, they live longer and even can berry/carry way more pain as men can. Women have thousands of more nerves as a men has and so they feel more too. Crying has nothing to do with being strong or weak but with being able to feel and show your emotions.
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• Bulgaria
18 Mar 12
definitely so. I agree with you. but rather men made ??strong to women and showed no tears but rather anger anger. So why think that they somehow take it and cry but only in emergencies. everyone should be able to show their emotions, regardless of what they are! Thanks for the reply.
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@ajithlal (14705)
• India
6 May 12
I think some men think it is weak to show their emotions. I think it is okay for everyone to show their emotions. Most times girls will understand when the men cry and show their emotions and people who really care never things that men who cry are weak.
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• Bulgaria
7 May 12
definitely the case. just shows everyone differently and therefore does not show any feelings. importantly we can put ourselves in the place of others. Thanks for the response-
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
Oh jeez, I don't care what people say but if I could cry, I would cry for as often as I can. I am just amazed with how crying sort of gives me a release from all the inhibitions and stresses of life. Whoever said that real men don't cry don't know nothing about life. If a man just keeps it all bottled in, he would soon explode and he may just have a breakdown or a mental illness. Crying can relax people whenever they are stressed out. I don't mind crying at movies I watch, although I don't voluntarily show people that I do cry. It doesn't make one less of a man. It just means that you are capable of feeling strong emotions, which is normal to any human being. Saying that real men don't cry is just plain absurd.
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@cheenlly (3479)
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
I absolutely agree with you. By nature is natural to cry regardless of whether your a man or a woman. Its created by God to be that way and it should be use. However it should not be too much because it will become a sickness. Its just a stereotype that when man cry its a sign of weakness which i think its not true at all. We are all human whether your a man or woman its natural to cry.
• Bulgaria
20 Mar 12
this is very true. Some tears can soothe the spirit and raise to feel great. so it's nice when you realize that many people crying and going on their little soul. Thank you for your answers.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
28 Feb 12
yeah men also cries but it is not ladies where tears are falling down.it is hard for men to take out tear from his eyes because they are emotionally much stronger than women.men cries but without tear means they cries from inside but if there is tear then it is sure that the problem or the pain is the highest level and now it is difficult to control the tears.
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@Galena (9118)
28 Feb 12
what makes you think that men are more emotionally strong than women? because ask around. most people will admit that at the core and spine of the family, supporting them through all the hard times, it's a woman.
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• Bulgaria
18 Mar 12
men showed no tears for us as women. they seem to hide them inside when they are alone and then cry and show their grief. because they are afraid to hurt their egos can not think of them as weak. although both men and women there are strong personalities but also weak. so that men and women cry but women show it so I think I like the men cry but in secret. Thanks for the reply.
• India
19 Apr 12
hello.... Men usually cry when their heart get seriously broken.....
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• Bulgaria
19 Apr 12
there are some circumstances when a man's heart is broken, he can cry out in pain from this that a woman has hurt him in pain. really where the heart of a man is broken, he can take it very seriously and cry. Thanks for the reply
• India
19 Apr 12
its better they cry and remove their feelings out.....else developing a hatred against the particular deep inside their heart...
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• Bulgaria
19 Apr 12
I totally agree with you better is the man to cry because otherwise the pain turns into hatred and anger that is bad and scary ..
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
Well, there are a few men who cries. I know a lot of men who don't cry, o don't show to others that they cry. When I asked one man friend, he said it affects his pride if he shows he's crying so as much as possible they won't cry and if they do, they won't show it. I admire so much some men who can show while they cry.
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• Bulgaria
18 Mar 12
this is so. there are men who are afraid to cry because it will really hurt their pride, and seemed no longer have the same authority. while men who cry and not be afraid and ashamed of it more than men because they really show their feelings. thanks for the reply.
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Even though my boyfriend is a man who don't cry for pride, I still prefer if he becomes one of the men who can truly express their feelings without being ashamed of it.
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• Bulgaria
14 Apr 12
it's nice when you can say and express what you feel what they harass without worry of whether he will see some tears. Yet we all have hearts and each of us feel pain and joy of all these feelings we are familiar. Thanks for the reply.
@pelobux (51)
19 Apr 12
Sensetive men does cry i think, but yeah its mostly the girls who cries. But i guess if a man's mom did die, he would cry.
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• Bulgaria
22 Apr 12
I totally agree with you. sometimes one has reason to cry out in pain and sorrow but most men do not cry because it is right tack. thanks for the reply.
@Zer0Stats (1309)
• India
29 Mar 12
Yes,you're right but just not in public.
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• Bulgaria
30 Mar 12
definitely the case. they do not cry in front of us. Yet man is a man he must support the family and not to show how much he is sad and crying like a woman. thanks for the reply.
@ajithlal (14705)
• India
29 Mar 12
I do believe that men do cry. I think it is common that all people both men and woman do cry. I think some people believe that crying is weakness and they do not show emotions. I think it is okay to show the emotions especially crying.
• Bulgaria
30 Mar 12
oh yeah this is so. they want to always display strong and stable. is nevertheless clear is that feelings but do not show it still men. thanks for the reply. nice day!
@Marvz18 (106)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
In my own personal opinion I could say Yes. Men do cry... one example of that is me... I do cry sometimes if I have something in my chest that I cannot express maybe anger, loneliness and or depression... It really gives me a great relief and makes my breathing back to normal... I don't see any reason why men won't cry... :D
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• Bulgaria
29 Mar 12
I agree with you. sometimes we can not cry and sometimes we can pop in an uncontrollable weeping. is different every time. most important thing is not to upset others and to show such strong people who hold strong and are firmly grounded in reality. trbyava time you will cry. thanks for the reply.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 12
of course.. men is like women they are human too had a strongest and had a weakness had a smile but sometimes tears
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
completely true men and women are human beings and we all have feelings and sometimes you have to cry on. thanks for the reply. Have a nice day!
24 Mar 12
men are also human beings capable of having emotions. what's so disturbing is the fact that we always have biases especially regarding gender. men do not want people to see them cry because of the whole machismo idea. it's actually a stupid logic. men are supposed to be strong and crying is perceived as a sign of weakness. crying men are seen as cowards by the mores that society has put up. i don;t mind seeing men cry, for me it takes true courage and manhood to allow yourself to cry and express how you feel without caring what people would think. that makes a strong man for me.
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
very true said and written. however all have to express their chuvstavta to chuvstavme calm. and men and women cry but some other little more depending on our emotions. it is still nice when people do that. thanks for the reply.
@rozilynf (140)
12 Mar 12
YES DO MEN CRY, i do have a boyfriend we're leaving together, i only once saw him crying, i feel his loving to me, he just thought that i cheated to him but i never did, so i always telling him where i am going to.. for him not to think too much.. i do everything for my love, in just one cry i got attraction be very loving more to him.. because other guy didn't cry.. i guess i am lucky
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
oh yeah there are many men who cry only once to show their feelings. and sometimes it's so good to cry some love and to know that you love but do not always receive it. but it is good that there are men who do not hide my tears. Thanks to answer.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
10 Mar 12
Yes men cry, but their tolerance level is higher compared to women, i have seen men crying who are sad, depressed or in pain of any kind. Thanks for this discussion. Best of luck. Happy posting, cheers. Kalyani
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
true. men sometimes cry cry instead poured his grief into anger in nervousness and what not. but we all need to cry so we created. thanks for the reply.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
29 Feb 12
Yes dear, men do cry like us women~(^^) Every God's creations that have emotions, they do cry in their whole lives. You have seen them so you should know that they do cry, right??(^^)
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
oh yeah that is so some men weep not others depends on their emotions. everyone is different and maybe that is why everyone takes things differently. thanks for the reply.
@amitpro (75)
• India
29 Feb 12
Hi...friend , I think men cry when there is no other way out of the issue. when they are overwhelmed with emotions like with family or friends. they cry only when they find themselves unable to resist tears flowing down their eyes. Surely, their tears are very true and need full support. They do not indulge themselves in those absurd ways like girls who always search a grief to cry about.
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
this is very true I think, to cry for real things and not and would neshtyalo. especially when I'm a woman and not child uchedvam to itself for what I cried but you learn while alive. so we need to share emotions and feelings but not always with tears and weeping only when needed. thanks for the reply.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Feb 12
My boyfriend cries as well, but for me that is strong proof that he has strong manliness. Because for me it is another projection of love and humility towards a partner. It all means that he really value you as a woman he loves and respect. Aside from that he does not want to lose you.
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
I agree with you. I do not know why many men do not dare to cry in front of their wives and this is a sign of love that they feel and ibochet. I'm glad you had such a man to himself because he knows how to show what you feel and understand it and can always tmu help and to comfort him. thanks for the reply.
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
Yes men cry.If we women can cry,then theres no reason that men also can cry.They are human being so do we also......
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
oh yeah we also have to understand them and must be able to comfort them when they cry though this is rare. thanks for the reply.
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
29 Feb 12
Yes they do, men have feelings or emotions too. But they grew up learning that men have to be strong so they hide it. They don't cry so easily as most women, but i guess that's just how we were socialized.
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
I agree with you. they just need to show that strong anyway if all sit down to cry what happens the world will become a great sea. thanks for the reply.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
29 Feb 12
Hi Neva, No matter how strong they are, men are still human beings. They can still feel, and of course they will still cry. Their strong appearance doesn't mean they cannot cry. :)
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• Bulgaria
24 Mar 12
definitely the case. we are all human beings and all know how to cry. some others show it does not depend on ourselves. thanks for the reply.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
29 Feb 12
Yes they do, i would say that men are pretending to be hard, but they will cry in secret when no one is looking, hehe... They do cry of course because they too have emotions, we might not know when or why or how but they will, i am super sure of that..
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• Bulgaria
20 Mar 12
to we can not understand when men cry but they do it secretly and poured all his soul. cause the packages still nice to know that men cry while on a secret spot. thanks for the reply.