is it the emptiness in me?

Singapore
March 1, 2012 2:31am CST
why do i sometimes feel that my life is going nowhere and i'm doing the same old and boring thing over and over again ( school, work, play, sleep, computer ). its like there is an emptiness inside me and needs to be filled because i just dont know what to do with my life sometimes and i just feel bored with my life. suggestions or help anyone? thank you :D
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9 responses
• Philippines
3 Mar 12
I've been there. It happened to me when I was in college. I feel that there is something that lacks in me, but it is only I who cater those thoughts. You feel some emptiness its because you are tired with your usual routine. Here is my suggestion. 1. Look for something that interest you. 2. Read some inspirational story. 3. learn a new skill. 4. Stay positive.
• Singapore
10 Mar 12
great advice! thanks!
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
2 Mar 12
Hi Nonsense, Everyone feels bored with life sometimes. If you don't know what to do with your life, I suggest you to look inside yourself and find your passion. Then, do it. :)
• Singapore
2 Mar 12
yea, i feel that when i have an aim in life, i get dont get bored with it. but for now, i'm still trying to find the passion. i may need some time. but thanks for your advice! i'll get out of this state soon :D
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
1 Mar 12
Try to fill your emptiness with the words of God. You feel that way because of your soul which is hungry with the words of God. That maybe the reason why are you bored or anything else that you feels in your life...
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
2 Mar 12
If that is becoming a pattern well I can't really blame you to become bored. But then be still thankful that your life is like that such as school, work, play, sleep and computer. Just imagine the agony of others wherein they have to work too much in order for them to earn and to study. Worst case scenario that is not enough for them in all kinds of necessities.
• Singapore
2 Mar 12
yea, that i.ve got to agree.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
1 Mar 12
We all have that sooner or later or more frequently. The only way to chance that is to live an active life! To decide that happiness is a choice and you have to make yourself happy. To make plans and work the out. That way you are active and feel alive. Gather/collect as much life experiences as you can.
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
2 Mar 12
My life as of the moment is on limbo too. I have not decided what the best road to take to become successful. But I am weighing my choices well and always keeping that positive attitude. We may be at lost sometimes but someday we will find our way.
• Singapore
2 Mar 12
i'm gonna try to find mine soon, hope u find yours too :)
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 Mar 12
We all feel like this at times, I think we all get ourselves into a rut, but as you get a little older and have a few tragedies in your life which also happens to us all it is then that we look back and wish we had a mundane boring life again because it was not really boring at all, it was a really a state of peace, I think that is why negatives are there in our lives, to make us appreciate the calm.
@shrike (123)
• Philippines
1 Mar 12
hi! you will feel really boring because you do same thing everyday. but when u appreciate what you are doing, you will find it nice. why not go out sometimes or visit some beautiful spots in your place. enjoy your age but know your limitations. for me, i don't find any wrong in your situation. at least you are not doing such things that are not good. do good to your studies then after graduation, do whatever you want. go wherever you go. that are the advice i heard from my older friends.
• Philippines
1 Mar 12
Sometimes life is hard to grasp, its changing different directions and path. Sometimes we feel life is better particularly when we are happy,no one bother us.Life is full challenge and extreme events in which you can't identify what is the really meaning of it until such time you realized it was really incredible journey. That feeling is very common but it varies to the people who experiencing it. We have what it takes to control our life if we wanted to just make sure you turn your life to a better you. Time will come that feeling of yours will be answered by you. In due times the discussion you brought slowly give you the ideas of whats is happening in your life Just hold on and ask yourself who can fulfill my emptiness inside. Or just assess it what is lacking in your life.