single women getting pregnant

Hi Crystal11... Well your discussion reminds me with my new neighbour. I was shocked when I saw a litt1le girl was carriying her baby, she is not more than sixteen. Younger than me, her baby is only three months. I don't really know her cz she is new in my place and she rent a house with her husband but I know that she still acts like a teenager. I am so sorry for her, hope she can be a good mom for her baby. The world is getting crazy, now there are many young mommy with or without her husband have to take care of heir baby. I wonder if they ,\miss their play time or not.

I'm guilty of this. I'm a single mom, I got pregnant at an early young age. I know this is such a tough discussion because this the latest trend in the world. I think things happen for a reason. To be a single mom is such a hard work, but I prefer to be a single mom rather than to be married with someone who hurts me and gave heartaches to me.

I think they should not done this since they are still schooling. Anyway, whats done is done and I think they should be responsible for the baby. For a happy family for both couple to get married first and have baby, I think that's the not the only way nowadays. I still think for a happy family is still getting married virgin and and have baby afterwards.

It is sad to the woman who had child with out father to take care and support.Girls are easy to be deceived,and even they are in school for studying they are victims of that getting pregnant. I don't know why some woman are do that,they never focus their studies but hey allow their self to be in danger.

I'm thinking the same way you are on those things, it should be done in order, #1 finish the schooling, #2 find a good job , #3 than you may look to find a good partner to share your life with who care about you and know what real love is.

For a child to be able to grow as a good person he/she needs a stable loving family. That is the ideal thing to do but as mentioned it has been a common occurrence of being a single parent. In my view instead of pointing fingers on how it happened, why it happened each should be focused on how to raise the child who is filled with loved and not with questions. I know being a single parent is hard and its good to have a very strong support group. But for a child to grow knowing only a mother or a father will create such emptiness or a sense of being incomplete. Therefore we must let them feel loved. Even if you are a single parent it is also good to maintain a good relationship with the father/mother of the child.

Yes this does seem to be a very common thing, I often think about this sort of thing when I watch a certain court show on TV nearly all the people who go on there are single with children and most times with many different fathers, I often feel sorry for the kids in these situations as I think having two parents when possible is what kids really need.

I agree that it is important for a child to have both father and mother in their life. To teach them the many things they need to learn. There are a lot of young women who get pregnant and take on the responsibility to raise a child. I do agree that it should work out the way you stated.But for many people it doesn't happen that way. I'm happy though that many people decide to take responsibility for their actions and raise their child.