when will i have the freedom that i deserved?

Philippines
March 3, 2012 7:49am CST
this is the question that keeps bugging me. I don't know if why but i feel like my parents always have the last words on everything i do. I hope that maybe one of this days i will have the freedom that i deserved
4 responses
@shrike (123)
• Philippines
3 Mar 12
hi! what kind of freedom you are referring to.. as you have said,, maybe you should broden or explain more so that mylotters can understand what your trying to tell. as you have said, parents wants only the best for their children. sometimes there are things our parents think it is right for us, but for us, it is not, that is why we don't want to do it. why not learn to appreciate and try to do it, when they see that you are not happy about it but atleast you try doing it then maybe they will realize that you really don't deserve it.. and as they said, there is nothing solve through nice talk. maybe try to explain well to your parents your side. tell them your feelings about what you decide., i'm sure they will understand, lastly, what the use of telling them about your decision when they tell their opinion it's not usable.
@shrike (123)
• Philippines
3 Mar 12
hi! what kind of freedom you are referring to.. as you have said,, parents wants only the best for their children. maybe you just get them wrong, or maybe you should explain them well your plan until they understand. my dad did the same thing do but when i know it will not make me happy, i explain to him, i tell him my feelings about what he decides for me. maybe they think at your age you are not yet capable to decide for your self, why not show them that you are capable enough to do so.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
3 Mar 12
I remember those days. I'm sure that soon you will get the freedom you deserve. When we are young it seems forever to reach that point. At times it seems as if our parents really don't understand us. Soon though you will be on your on living your life. Enjoy having less responsibilities, and save that way when you are on your own you are in a better situation to take care of yourself.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
3 Mar 12
If you want to be free, get the freedom you think you deserve you have to stand up and take it. Nobody will give it to you. I took my freedom as I was 15. I payed a high price for that (no family, no friends, being poor, abandoned) but it was it worth to me. What are you willing to sacrifice if you take your freedom? Will you be a fighter/survivor or knock on your parents door and crawl back on your knees inside as soon as you have no place to go anymore and not one cent to spend?