How Can I find People are Trusted or Not???

India
March 5, 2012 12:12am CST
guy in my life I face many time those are too close. they cheated me and I not want to any more bluff in my life. I know not all are cheated but now these days I little bit confuse how to find the people is good or not / trusted or not? please guys suggest me?
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9 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Mar 12
The only way to find out is to take chances and risks keep your eyes open, observe and listen very well. Don't respond inmediatley, ask questions, sometimes the same and check if the answers are the same. Listen to your instinct!
• India
6 Mar 12
yes I will do this thanx
@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 12
From my experience, No one can be trusted 100% Trust, as long as I concern must be build. Sometimes single way (build by us, reputation), sometimes two-side ways (both sides must proof them self that they worth to be trusted). In my opinion, to find trusted person won't be easy. They must proof them self they worthy to be trusted. Even they already proof them self, we can't trust them 100%.
• India
5 Mar 12
yes you right I agree with you
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
To be honest, finding a trusted someone is very hard.. Trust should be given to those who are deserving. Betrayal is the number one reason why trust fails. So I suggest if ever you feel that a particular is worth trusting give it, but don't give your 100% so that if ever the time comes that something happens, it wouldn't be so hard on your part.. Just choose wisely..
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
6 Mar 12
There is really no telltale sign about if someone can be trustworthy. There are some people that it is blatantly obvious that they are not someone that you should consider yourself be safe with interacting with. But there are just many people who wear a mask of benevolence and trustworthiness that are not to be trusted. You cannot know until you know a person. And even then, it is not something that you are going to completely know. There are going to be many times where trust is going to be something that something that is hard to determine. I think that there are some people where I’d like to believe that I can trust but you never really know.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
6 Mar 12
It is not that you need to find the person you can trust but at least you must be observant enough regarding their actions. If you see something that is already suspicious then confront that person. After that if he wasn't able to tell the truth even if you caught him in the act then I think that is the time that you have to leave that person. Remember there is no perfect human on this world. Even us can't be trusted at times. The thing we can do is just to be more alert.
@kristiane (112)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
We all get cheated somewhere and by someone in our lives. We all experience the inevitable pain and sorrow. To gloom, we must not because it's not important how others treat us but how we treat others kindly and lovingly. In the end, everything has its price.
• India
5 Mar 12
yes I agree but now I'm a changed. no more cheating and trying to helping all the peoples those are really need my help. I learn my lesson.
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
that's life, you need to learn from your experience it's hard for me to trust anyone too right now i'm in a state of "Just listen, but don't bother believing!" thing
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 12
do it by your deeply heart..
@utopia96 (640)
• Indonesia
5 Mar 12
really very difficult to find people who can believe,I often cheated and disillusioned with my friends,now I do not easily believe the same person too often because I cheated.