Accepting a Friend on Mylot

I turned down one that wanted to start dating. Felt my husband wouldn't approve and I knew I didn't approve, so said 'I don't think so.' Most people I will take as friends. Usually, I've followed a few of their posts or responses to posts and know whether or not I want them as friends. Hugs, Maggie

I never denied to accept in any form of friendship such thing will make me complete, friends for me is a lifetime achievement, if you have many friends online or offline then that reflects you as a man.

I usually check their profiles and see what kind of activity and interests they have. I can tell that way if they are kind or abusive. I can also see if we share some of the same interests. I look to see if they have a ton of banners on their profile and if they do..that's ok as long as they are active here. I try to avoid the spamming thing. I might wait a couple of days if they have very low activity numbers just to see if they are intending on being active members here. I look to see if we have ran across one another in discussions too. I just like to get a feel for the person first. I won't usually deny someone unless they have been abusive, rude, or has a ton of friends and no activity. I love making new friends here and I usually have to have a very good reason if I don't accept them.

I will accept any friendship request because it'll give me more variety and quantity of discussions that I can respond to. A few of them became close and we ended up on each other's facebook but not often but I never deny because I'm here to discuss and interact and earn. If a person spams me I just dont' respond to the messages and they usually get the hint that I'm here on MyLot to talk not send referral links.

If I like their profile,and I find that we are interested in some of the same things,I accept them right away.I only have about 5 friends,and if I find somebody's discussions,or comments interesting,and I like them,I might ask for their friendship!

oh well i havent done this activity beforr because i don not have a request right now but if i have got one i wiuld do the approving thing.

I just accept everyone.So far,the ones that I approve post no hurting posts.I come here regularly so it's only gonna take awhile before I accept friend requests.

Immediately when i see the request....

I'm not sure if I have a routine. I usually look at their profile just to have an idea or a backgrounder on who the person is. Then I accept the invitation. After that, I send a private message thanking the person about the invite. Oh, I guess I do have a routine after all

I accept friend requests, i mean aside from the discussions and updates that you will get from them, you'd be able to learn more about them and their culture. but one thing though, be careful on giving out your personal information because we'll never know who the predators are....

I always accept friend request here in Mylot. It is not facebook where we have personal information and relative list so I think it is fine to accept everybody's request. If they send me spam messages, that is the time that I delete that person. So far, I don't have a friend who spams and that is a good news for me More friends, more fun!

Hi..! I usually accept all friend requests..! But sometimes i consider his name and basic info when accepting..!

I accept the as soon as i see them on here when i log on. I don't log on as much as I used to, but if you want to be my friend I will gladly accept and never turn you down.

I will just accept the friend request once i am getting i wont deny the friend request... i think nothing is wrong in having new friends in mylot.. so i will be helpful to know eachother

Hi glitznglitter. Nice to meet you for the first time. I don't turn down freiend requests. I see no reason to, except, just one or two reasons, and I will not bring up those reasons, but just let me say that I try to live a good life and think about kind and good things, so maybe that would be a hint. I have quite a few friend, and I simple go to the profile for a minute to see if I can tell a little about their character, and if they are someone I wouldn't be afraid of in the daylight or someone I wouldn't worry about being around my loved ones, then I will accept them.

I usually do is to check the member`s profile and read some of the posts and answers he has made so as to see if we`ll meet again later. If someone spams me or doesn`t meeet my idea of friendship,I can always delete him.

Hi Anyone can be my friend here on mylot.

hi, actually i dont deny someone when they send a friend request to me here in mylot because its a help to me to have a many circle of friends here and aside from that i could benefits to them too because i can see their created topic in my email so i can response and they can see easily too my created topic.

I just recently joined mylot and over these few days I have gotten some friends request. I have accepted them and haven't denied any. I just want to interact with others and repsond to interesting and a variety of different dicussions.