Do you have LOVE Problems? ....Consult me NOW! :p

love problems... at some point in our life... who hadn't? hehe would crying make it easier to let go and move on? depends. but i know that after a good cry... it's quite relieving. when it comes to people and relationships... i always refer to the concept of REASON, SEASON and LIFETIME. we meet some people for a reason. they sometimes become part of our life for a season. and some people choose to stay for a lifetime. needless to say, it can't be said for all people. no matter how good and loving a person is, it's not a bullet-proof guarantee that we can avoid heartbreaks. love songs of james ingram sis. :) have a great day! gbu

Hi Jai! I agree it is not easy to let go someone you love. However, sometimes situations demands that you forget your broken relationship and move ahead. Thinking about a broken relationship and the person concerned does not help rather it makes you feel more disappointed. Life is like a train journey, which always moves forward. Our co-passengers who get alighted mid=-way and never board the same train again, needed to be forgotten so as to make us stress free.

Hi didi... You better know my expectation regarding love. Once fell and then rescued myself and from that time i am far long away from love. Now marriage is coming, hence no love anymore to get hurt and deceive her. After marriage my love is only for my bride. Better way to console your broken heart. Adopt a street dog and give him/her the name of that cheater. Have a nice time.

yes its painful to lose out in love. I have goen through this expereince. its very hard to forget the past good times. its easy said than done. One of the advice people give to forget the past is to think of the negative side of the relationship.

Hi jaiho: I feel that I am good at giving love advices even if I don't have too much experience. It's funny because if I give good advices I should have the best romantic life but that's not the case I normally advice people to do different activities and not to focus on this obsession. Second to try to be rational when thinking about their problem. ALVARO

Sorry no love problems at the moment. I also don't think I will have them since I still have a lot of common sense next to love and I won't do anything in name of love anymore (had those hard lessons in the past). I like the saying about crying althoug I can't remember the last time I cried anymore. It's mostly useless and I am a fighter/survivor. This doesn't mean I can't feel miserable btw. I do believe it's important to remember (write down) all the bad things during the relationship if you want to get over someone. Since all these things were the reason why the relationship was ended. You can prefer to forget it, make up good times but if you do so your next relationship will be doomed as well. If you don't change nothing will change. And if you were not good enough then remember you are a great person, it's not about you but about the wrong link.

crying may help you to reduce some pain but don't just waste your time on crying, there are important things to do than that. just imagine all that he/she has done that makes you so broken :D

HI jai Cry until your tears run dry and your heart get tired of asking why True... and when our heart gets tired, our mind will automatically reject whatever questions we have from our past love. So, we all need to accept the happy days with that someone is over. It's part of loving. We love, laugh, get hurt and cry. If this love comes back and it is worthy taking back then it's fine. But if isn't we just need to learn to let go. I just commented on your post on leaving myLot... Hmm, I guess this post is about that too. I will miss you jai.

I am so sad you are leaving your friends

Hmm I do not have love problems at the moment too. I'll contact you later, hehe just kidding. Well I do agree with the crying advise ..Cry until your tears run dry and your heart gets tired of asking why. But I will add a little, Tell your story until your mouth get sore and the person listening becomes deaf. I do think that aside from crying it is good to let out those feelings just by talking and talking it can lessen the pain and eventually you will be ready to accept thing and begin the healing process.