Future is created by the women!!!
By dandan07
@dandan07 (1906)
China
March 8, 2012 8:41am CST
Today is the women's day.
In today's net, a paper named "Future is created by the women!!!" catches my eyes.
It says that women is the carrier and creator of culture and life, while men are just the ruler and saboteur.
To me, I think in some degree, it is true.
What i have learned in my life are most coming from my mother not from my father.
I learned from my mother the way to love others, the way to feel the happiness of life and the way to make life better. While my father only makes me listen to her and act as his slaver.
I think to see whether a country will have a good future, to see how their women lead their life is ok enough. If the women in the country can have good education, can have a happy life and have a high social status, the country will be harmony and will have a good future for their children can get good education from their mother.
So to China, the country will not have a future. For many girls are killed before born. Women can not get equal opportunity to enter the school and have a good job. And the women's population become smaller and smaller. While women can not get any security from marriage. The only way for them to lead a good life is to work as a man.
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4 responses
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
12 Mar 12
I agree that women play an important role in the development of civilization. For mothers have large influence in the early growth of children, the better education the girls receive, the higher qualities the citizens of a nation have. Compared with men, women behave less competitiveness and tend to solve the conflicts peacefully. Just as you said, there's still a large space for China to improve the status of its women. But I disagee that the country will not have a future. Reviewing the history, we could find that nowadays girls receive better education than their mothers and grandmothers. Take Shanghai for example, girls have more opportunities of receiving high education than boys, many of whom could find well-paid jobs after graduation. I know Shanghai could not represent the whole China, but to some extent it could show a positive tendency.
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@dandan07 (1906)
• China
13 Mar 12
I know that now girls have more opportunity to have a better education than 30 years ago. But it seems only happen in the city not the rural area. Many girls have to give up their middle school education to support their brothers and families. And there are more chances for girls in city do not get married or marred men from other countries.
So the well-educated girls left for the country is not enough to change or protect the culture of the country.
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
8 Mar 12
hi dandan, I can sense that you are close with your mother. And I am happy that you value your mother much. Yes it made sense to say that the Future is created by woman. It is the woman who gives birth to each of us here in the world. Without them our population might not increase and no great people will be born. It is the woman in the house that will train the children to become who they will be in the society. Here in the Philippines our national hero once said that the youth is the hope of your nation. The youth will be the next leaders of the nation so we must raise them well. And there you can see the role of a woman, of a mother to her child. And regarding your statement about woman relying to a good marriage, Im glad it is changing now and women are becoming independent and is closer to be viewed as equals by the men. There is much lesser gender discrimination today than the old days.
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@dandan07 (1906)
• China
12 Mar 12
Women is very important. They are the hope of the nation.
In ancient China, there are a lot of wars, so many people were killed. It is the women to make the population comes back and it is the women to pass the culture from generation to generation.
Now the situation is still not changed. Women is really the role to keep the tradition to our sons and grandsons.
But now many girls give up to do that, they take in other cultures and do not want to pass our own culture. I think the main reason for that is they are not well-treated in China now.
@zaahro (748)
• Indonesia
8 Mar 12
Hello dandan...
Future is created by women? That makes sense 
. Yeah, women raise their children in their ways, so how good the new generation is depend on how the women raise their children. That's why we have Mother's day, a special day for the mother in the world.I wish everyday is mother's day because their love and their affection is last and a day of each year is not enough, so it is okay if Mother's day is just a symbol
. For some cases people will say that father is the best if they are raised by their father.
Father is our hero too, he works hard to give all of our needs, to pay our education and give his wise words in his chance to talk to you, in his break time. Father and mother show their affection in a different way due to their different function in the family. But their love are the same.
I am sorry for all Chinesse women that are not lucky yet, hope they'll get a better life and a better protection.
. Yeah, women raise their children in their ways, so how good the new generation is depend on how the women raise their children. That's why we have Mother's day, a special day for the mother in the world.I wish everyday is mother's day because their love and their affection is last and a day of each year is not enough, so it is okay if Mother's day is just a symbol. For some cases people will say that father is the best if they are raised by their father.
Father is our hero too, he works hard to give all of our needs, to pay our education and give his wise words in his chance to talk to you, in his break time. Father and mother show their affection in a different way due to their different function in the family. But their love are the same.
I am sorry for all Chinesse women that are not lucky yet, hope they'll get a better life and a better protection. @dandan07 (1906)
• China
12 Mar 12
In modern world, more and more women can get education, many women even do much better than men. If having a well-educated mother, children will have a great benefit in many area. They can learn more from their mother, when they are still young. they can have an better life with good arrangement and good financial condition. And even if their family meet problems, their mother can have the ability dealing with them.
