I have two daughters and no sons.

Can you & your wife still have children?If yes,this site can help you in having a son.http://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/PredictSex.htm Just time it well.I used that in predicting the gender of my pregnant friends' babies.So far,all predictions are correct. :)

Many women loose a child. Every 2nd pregnancy end in an spontenous abortion. I think there is a good reason for it. We all think it's so normal to get a healthy child but it's not. I lost 5 myself in all different stages. I can't say one is worser as the other although it might look like that if it happens just before it's time and the baby is complete. At this moment you don't expect it anymore. Blaming yourself, your wife or a doctor or clinic is mostly useless. This all you have to give a place in your heart, your mind, your life. What happend you can't change. It's very hard to believe that the fact you did not see a doctor is the reason your son did not make it. All over the world women give birth without any help. In my country it's not even normal to give birth with a doctor. It's the midwife. I think that if human being is healthy they know what to do too just like animals they should be able to give birth in a normal way. It also sounds to me that you prefer a son above a girl and I wonder why. What makes you think a son is worth more? How do you think the world would look like if there were only men? No child would be born anymore and no man has someone who takes care of him. You should be happy you have 2 great daughters. See what happend as a life experience and ask yourself what you can learn from it. It sounds to me you did not learn anything after all these years. You are still full of anger, grieve and you blame many people for what is happend. If you stay this way it will kill you and all the people around you. Since also your daughter know they are not your first choice.

Time eases pain but you will never forget. Life moves on and there is no use in agonizing on the past. Just be thankful you have a family. Many are unable to have a child at all. I hope can learn to be at peace with yourself.

It's so sad. My condolences. The doctor is not experienced enough and i'm sure he knows the truth right from the start. How is it possible for your wife to be staying there for 2 days and yet there's no movement from the baby? Doctors can do all the checks but when it comes to emergency cases like your wife, they should be around all the time. It's all too late for regrets but it's alright. U have two daughters now, they will give you lots of grandson to care for in the future. Do move on and look forward.

I am sorry to hear about your son. And i don't have to go into details anymore. But at least God has given you 2 daughter. Focus on seeing them grow, so the loss of your son will not make you sad anymore. However, is there not a chance anymore that you could try for another child. You might have another son again.

Sorry for the loss of your son. Losing a child is usually one of the most painful thing a person can go. I remember when I was younger, my sister lost her son (first child). She couldn't hold it together for sometimes and spent most of her time crying but later on, God gave her two children; a son and a daughter. Be grateful that God gave you two more daughters. You took your wife in that maternity clinic since you trusted it but unfortunately, the clinic proved to be not what you expected. Do not feel guilty for taking her there. Sometimes, things happens since they are part of God's plan.

Sorry to hear about this, and I know this must be hard. I had miscarriages myself back in the day, otherwise I would have a 25 yr. old today, and a 22 yr old, a 20 yr old and a 16 yr old. There are days when it is really hard for me, as I am sure for you. Just remember in all things good things rise up. Just need to keep strong and always remember no matter what happens, God is in control.

sorry lol God will give you strength

I am so sorry for your loss. Something like that can hurt for a life time. Though you mourn for your Son still, do not forget the beautiful young ladies you do have with you in your life. ((hugs))

Yanza, it is pity to hear that you had loss your son that way. By the way, why you didn't send your wife direct to the hospital for the delivery? Is the hospital too far away from your home? I prefer to have my son born in the hospital rather than in the maternity clinic. At least, if anything goes wrong, hospital have many facilities to overcome the problem. Hope you are able to overcome your sadness and do take good care of your two lovely daughters. I am sure they are as pretty as both of you...

God loves you and your family especially your lost child. Your baby is now with in gods arms. God wants you to love your family most as he loves your child on his side.

Its a tragic incident my dear friend so it will be better for you if you forget everything though its difficult still and start all over again.