Am in love with a girl who happens to be in a distance relationship

Hong Kong
March 9, 2012 3:18am CST
What would you do if the girl you love happens to be in a distance relationship. In my case this girl calls me like everyday and she enjoys my company, we flirt and do other things, she says she likes me but she has a boyfriend. I don't understand her sometimes because some of the things she does with me, I would say she is cheating on her boyfriend already with me. What would you do if you were in my shoes???
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WakeUpKitty
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
11 Mar 12
Would you like it if she were your gf and an other boy was flirting with her? I think you should back off or at least stop flirting with her!
chicgale
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
10 Mar 12
Yes, that girl is cheating with her boyfriend. I think you should stop communicating with her.
maezee
@maezee (41997)
• United States
9 Mar 12
I think the best you can do is let it go. Or give her an ultimatum - ME, or Him - and if she chooses him you just need to let it go. For someone to be in a long-distance relationship, things must be incredibly serious. She is probably just lonely and that is why she is flirting. That would be my guess. Best of luck to you though. & Happy MyLotting (welcome to MyLot as well!)
befrindwithme26
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
10 Mar 12
Oh the girls flirts you.Maybe the girl had plan to break the boy so she will have you. But you should not allow her to enter in since she had boyfriend already.You avoid it,because that is making a big problems in future. But it depends on you,it's your decision.
Mashnn
@Mashnn (4501)
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9 Mar 12
She is either not happy with her current relationship and she is most probably looking for another boyfriend. I would let her know that I am not ok with her calling and flirting with me everyday as it was a form of cheating.
anuragv69
@anuragv69 (91)
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9 Mar 12
may be she is not cheating . all she wants is sumone who gives her time and whom she can share things . you can't really judge her. girls they always need sumone to share things
bhonti
@bhonti (1246)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
She is just playing with you. Clearly she's just bored because her boyfriend is not around. Are you sure you want to be with this kind of girl? What we you ended up together? are you sure she won't do the same thing to you when you are not around? However, if you really really are in love with this girl, and you think you got a chance, you can talk to her boyfriend and tell him how you feel about her boyfriend. If you can't do that, just wait for them to break up and then grab the chance. Good luck!
Qardee
@Qardee (1)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 12
She is cheating on her boyfriend. Do you want a girlfriend who will be cheated from you too? You have to go away from a girl like this if you wanna have a good girlfriend. There's so many girl out there who still single and faithful. Why you have chosen unfaithful girl?