Do long distance relationships work?

Philippines
March 12, 2012 10:51am CST
With the advancement of technology today, it is easy to call and video chat with someone thousands of miles away! But do long distance relationships last? I am in one right now and I know a lot of other people who are also in long distance relationships. Others already gave up while others continue to struggle with the difficulty of the situation and try to wait patiently.
3 responses
@jhuddith (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
Yes, I believe that long distance relationships work. I believe what is needed in order to have the relationship work is that the couples should be committed to each other and that they must be mature enough to know what to expect. This means not resorting into being hysterical and not thinking negatively if the other was not able to call or text everyday considering that both parties may be located in different time zones. Trust is the most valuable thing in long distance relationships. So if the level of trust between the couple is not considerably higher than what it was at the start of the relationship, then I guess, there is no point in continuing it through long distance. My ex-boyfriend also worked outside the country. In the beginning, it was really difficult because you were used to seeing each other as often as you wanted to. We trust each other. We continue to communicate with each other. There were instances that he was not able to contact me but I was the understanding type of person so I just waited patiently. When he returned, I was the happiest. Now, my ex-boyfriend turned to be my husband... I guess, if you really love each other, no matter how far you are from each other, the relationship will continue to flourish.
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
wow congratulations to you and your husband! you survived a long distance relationship! it was probably not easy especially that you have to be more understanding, more patient, and you have to trust each other without being with them physically! i agree that it is really difficult in the beginning but you eventually find ways to cope with the situation!
@jhuddith (222)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Yes my friend. As what they say love sees no boundaries and that when you're in love, nothing else matters. Being far from each is indeed very difficult but when you are in love, just a short talk to him over the phone and a simple letter from him means so much to us.. (,")
• South Africa
13 Mar 12
Yes, they do last. Just like in any relationship there are hiccups. It depends on how much the two parties involved are involved. I cannot stress the importance of constant communication.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
Hi there Ellefable! Welcome to Mylot! I guess it still depends upon the persons who are in the relationship. It is a matter of trust and commitment. It would be easier nowadays, you're right, because of the existence of a lot of means of communication.