do you believe "love means to sacrifice?if so ,why?

@kini03 (222)
Philippines
March 12, 2012 1:38pm CST
when you fell in love,chances are its not about having nothing in common,but not having a connection and intimacy you once had,for me love is give and take ,you should put aside your`e own interest to make the relationship work rights and you have to compromised right?
2 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
13 Mar 12
The equation fulfills when it reaches to 50:50 ratio. When it acquired this level there is pefection and long lasting healthy relationship. Also, whenever the ratio varies, the life balance among the people will get lop sided and there may be issues and mis-matches which ultimately lead to diversity. So, it is better to keep the ratio of 50:50 balancing to acheive a great relationship and not only in love but everywhere in life.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
ooh the purposes of mathematics come ,heheh .. yes you`re right 50:50 is important we need to be level it in terms of loving person , so this could not be hard for us, if relationship will be worked out or not :) ,i just say sacrificing love if we really fall in love too much ,i say its bad not`s rights to give at all :) am i right ? :) sill we need to have and save in our self some love,love our hearts :)
@flamez3r0 (319)
• Puerto Rico
12 Mar 12
Hello :). That really depend on individual situations, but usually I would say no. The reason I say that it's a bad idea to sacrifice at all is that it's quite easy to leave behind everything one likes for the initial feelings of love, however later in the relationship that could become regret or blame against the other person, turning love into hate. Part of a relationship is indeed being able to reach a middle ground on differences, but it is also important to accept the person as she or he is. If you hate something your partner loves, instead of trying to make him hate it too, or him try to make you love it, you should both respect each other enough to leave the other feel how they feel naturally. Being in a relationship doesn't mean that you two should be together all the time either, so you could each take time to individually enjoy what the other hates. The way I see it, when you love someone you love everything that person is, if you have to change that person in order to love them then it isn't really love is it? :p.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
hi flamez3ro, :) thank you for sharing some ideas :),i know love have their own mysterious way,and how they showing it ,i know that sacrifice everything is not a good idea,but many people are just a victim of love ,they want to share their life`s in their special even if they have different in common ,i know love is accepting by who you are,but as much as the loves you give the better to keep relationship become more stronger,if lovers are in a stage of high relationship like marriage its really need to give and take ,i know real love is caring about happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves :) :P