Pleasse Dont bother me.

Indonesia
March 13, 2012 12:01am CST
I have a man who like me soo much.He told ot me he love me.But i think He only flirt me.I didnt like him but he always bother me.I dont like him because he's like poligamy.I feel really not comfortable when he bother me.Its soo annoyed. Well what should i slam him?what should i do to get rid from him? help me pleasse..
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12 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
why don`t you like poligamy?? why you are not brave said to him, that you really dislike him??
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
of course... except that the man is mylot members too
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
13 Mar 12
hi Adhyz82, you right to say i agree with you she should make herself to brave and clearly say that dislike him thats all.
• Indonesia
15 Mar 12
@adhyz i cant explain why i didnt like polygamy too much,,for me its really bad habit.am not brave to tell him pleasse dont bother me again,i fear he will get hurt coz of this.and i really really didnt want make people hurt cause of me,so thats why till this time i just ignore him,but he still bother me..huft.........
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Just ignore him or tell him to stay away from you. If he still bother you, tell him that you will call a police.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
@sofie : you can call police..but be careful, maybe the police likes you too
• Indonesia
15 Mar 12
@adhyz hahah you make me laugh here..awwww i dont think so if police will like me too,coz for sure im fear when i see police.i ever had bad trouble in police coz the police caught me in street without driving license LOL.
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
Awwwwww your funny friend,,should i call police?but its good idea i will try to tell to him later if he still bother me. Thanks for your respon here.
@matersfish (6306)
• United States
13 Mar 12
I'd have to look him straight in the eye and say, "Look, I know you think you're cute and special and that persistence pays off, but, dude, get a clue. I don't like you. I will never like you. You are extremely annoying. Now, please leave me alone. If you have a shred of decency in you, you will never speak to me or bother me again. Just go away! I don't like you. DAMMIT!" If he keeps on, get some pepper spray or spit on him!
• Indonesia
15 Mar 12
Awwwwwwwww thats soo cruel i think...hmmm but its good idea too,,but the problem is i cant be cruel for other person eeven i get hurt.Sometimes i feel confuse why i should being like this.am type of person can cruel or get angry to anyone.Well, thanks for your respon here..Nice to meet you here...
• United States
13 Mar 12
Hi, Make sure that the guy is not obsess or in love with you... Liking you is good but its hard to get rid off a guy who deeply in love with a girl specially on their teen years. Try to talk him with the presence of a friend or family and tell him about your feeling. Don't let it be public but talk to him privately with someone if possible your mother. I had experienced such thing when I was in Grade 6. He never stopped until I graduated in high school or until I left our place. Be careful somehow because if he loves and obsessed he can do harm if you insult him or hurt his feelings specially in front of people. Don't ever try to slap him. :)Sometimes men are become aggressive if they are hurt. Hang on there and deal him in a good way. God bless...
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
hii but we r not teen years anymore we are about 25 years old now.I tried to told to him with privately about my feeling.But he told i dont care what u feeling to me i still love u.but i know from his friends he has many girlfriend out there.and he like polygamy too,its make me didn like him.Yes i try to not hurt him.Well. Thanks for your respon here.Nice to meet u here.God bless u too..
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
hello, If you think that he is just flirting you then just ignore him and dont bother thinking about him because he is just a playboy and just want to trip around girls. You dont need to bother of this type of guy because he is not actually true. Just believe me I have a lot of experience. ha ha just ignore him and it will stop.
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
Hii tiina05 you right,hes type of playboy,he has many girlfriend and he told with his best friend he will do polygamy later.It make me more hate him.i believe in u coz u have more experience lol.Nice to meet you here..
@flapiz (22403)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 12
Well I think you should just tell him straight in the face that you don't like him. Something that goes like this: "Frankly speaking I don't like you because you flirt with so many girls." This works most of the times. By telling him frankly you: 1. Save his time, effort, and money. 2. Make him see what he should improve. 3. Convey your feelings.
• Indonesia
15 Mar 12
Oh its good idea i will try to doing this.Well nice to your respon here..Have good day for you.
• United States
13 Mar 12
Tell him to get lost! Tell him that you hate his guts, and that you'll call the police or get your friends on him if he doesn't stop. A guy did this to me one time, and some of my friends went after him. He never came back for fear that my friends would kill him or hurt him in some horrible way. Assert your power and authority over this guy. Let him know that he is not wanted nor welcomed around you. Another thing, I also carried pepper spray and some of my friends has weapons at their houses that I trained with. I also know self-defense. Again, let him know that you don't want him around.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
13 Mar 12
I would tell him that you do not feel the same way and you wish for him to leave you alone. If he still doesn't then try to ignore him. If he doesn't get that hint then maybe asking a male friend of yours to be of assistance would help. Good Luck and I hope he gets the hint!
• South Korea
13 Mar 12
hmm the best thing to do is just to ignore him.. if you keep paying attention on what hes doing the more you would actually feel uncomfortable or awkward when he is around.. besides you should be happy you got admirer but just dont be rush to them just ignore them as much as you can..or let him know if he is crossing the line and let him know it makes you feel uncomfortable.. Sometimes you just have to tell it to them whether gently or straight to the point atleast you made it clear to them..
• Indonesia
13 Mar 12
Yes in beside i happy i have admirer.but not make me proud of this. i try to ignore him.but he told he can to rid of me.
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
13 Mar 12
I think you should try to explain to him in a very straight manner that you don't feel attracted to him and tell him that you don't want him to bother you again,and if he's a reasonable man he will understand and leave you alone,but if he doesn't understand and keeps bothering you it means that he has some mental problems,and he needs counseling.There are people who become obsessed with another person and they could become dangerous if they are rejected,so if he still insists on seeing you even after you tell him that there can be nothing between you and him you should go to the police as a last resort.
@sanofer (525)
• India
13 Mar 12
you have found that This guy is so annoying and you dont want to spend your time with him. You know what do you want now. You have to take some steps to avoid that person. He you are in touch with him,he May take advantage and he May make you to fell in love with him. Since you know that he is not good,you should ignore and avoid him. You should not have any contact with him via phone or chat. It is better to block that person and come out from his world.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
14 Mar 12
The person whom bother you, or he here in mylot or not here? if he here in mylot, can you mentioned here? that he did know about you that you hate him if he out then you tell him what you like.