"friends with benefits"
By rozilynf
@rozilynf (140)
March 13, 2012 12:13am CST
Hi there, i have something to share myLotters, i have a girl friend she committed on that friends with benefits, i really don't know whats on her mind why she doing that? she have a boy friend but his boy friend have already committed and already have wife, or girlfriend i don't know what should be i call it but they were leaving together, but still my girl friend committed with the guy having just benefits, adding *** to their activities every time they were going to meet they do that, but she said to me that she already falling in love with that guy, but her boy friend its just only for fun? and they were just friends, my girl friend said their were argue that *** is a casual these day.
its was really just for the benefits, because one time we went out for fun. with that guy, she's the one who spent money for that guy, even though the guy really need to be gentlemen. the guy is older than her, she's 19 and guy 35+ something like that. i can't control my friends with that.
i want to give more advice with her, CAN YOU GIVE ME MORE ADVICE, THAT I CAN TELL HER.. SO SHE CAN CHANGE HER LIFE BEING LIKE THAT..
2 responses
@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
some people are like that even though they see the bad effects and it s for temporary fun and not for lifetime commitment they get hook for something not worthy to fight for. now, that she is falling n love, i do hope she not pregnant and the boyfriend s not showing concern to hm and just use her for fun. that would hurt her in the long run, as a good friend you could advice her to get out of the relationship than getting t deeper so it would not hurt her the most. the earlier the situation between her and friend stop then her misery would also stop. better her fnd a man who would truly love her.
@rozilynf (140)
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13 Mar 12
hi there
thanks for that, she will never get pregnant with that guy because the guy is incapable having a child, she's being too f oolish to see things real, the guy just using her just for fun, funny but she still want to make s3x with that guy.. she's just like getting stone then beat it to her head, things like that.. she fall in love with the guy because she always do s3x with that..
@dabieO (120)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
hhm.. maybe there is something else.
i mean maybe she's falling in love with the guy or more something deep..
@rozilynf (140)
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13 Mar 12
probably she's falling in love with that guy, and also she want it to be happen.. but still my girl friend blind about it,, i don't know when she will wake up in her delusion, she's so being f oolish doing that.. i don't what mind he have doing thing like that.. i'm so disappointed with her, but still i'm giving her an advice to her mind be open about the true..
