Do you agree with abortion?

Australia
March 15, 2012 5:59am CST
I just told my boyfriend that my monthly period is 4 days late now then he gets angry about the possibility of me getting pregnant.He said that he's not ready to have a baby.When we are talking about having baby months ago, he said that we will cross the bridge when we get there!is that what he means when he said he wants me to get an abortion if the pregnancy is confirmed?I need help.
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@larish (2191)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
I am 36 y.o., hubby & I are working to have a baby. Not every couple is easily blessed with a baby. I hope you will take the consequence of your action.
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@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
i totally agree with you larish.
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@maximax8 (31055)
• United Kingdom
21 Apr 12
Your boyfriend said he would cross that bridge when he came to it. I think it was scary for him to consider that you might be pregnant. He needs time to understand that no form of birth control is 100% effective. You are right to keep your baby if you are pregnant and don't have to have an abortion. Life is full of surprises and a baby can be wonderful. Abortion can be depressing and would be something you would live to regret. Sometimes a period can be late and the reason is stress. Good luck.
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• Philippines
15 Mar 12
You can continue your pregnancy without your loser boyfriend's support. Abortion is equal to murder and that involves killing an innocent offspring. If he wants you to undergo abortion, leave him and keep your baby instead. On other side, it could be stress that's causing your period's delay. Maybe you can use a home pregnancy test kit to confirm if you are positive for pregnancy.
@ShyBear88 (59261)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Mar 12
Your only 4 days late I wouldn't worry till its about 7 days to 10 days late. You have to remember what you choice is for you. He has no say what you do or do not do to your body. If you want to keep the pregnancy if you are pregnant that is your choice I'm all for that. I'm not the person that is for abortions but if you feel that is the right choice for you at this time then okay. Fallow your hear and what seems right. If he doesn't like that you want to keep or have a baby then he has the choice to walk out the door. My husbands sister she went through this months ago. She found out she was pregnant and her boyfriend told her to get an abortion. She is 19 year old and to me no man no matter how old he is has a right to tell a women no matter how old she is what to do. She told him no she wanted to keep and have the baby. She doesn't agree with abortions and she felt it wasn't right for her. She has the support of her whole family and if she has to do it on her own she will. Slowly the boyfriend came around to the idea of having son come in to his life. If he is going to stay or not, not sure he wasn't around till late second trimester and its now getting closer to her due date. She is doing the best she can on her own with every little help for her boyfriend. She goes to college every day , she gos to work for 10 hours a day to help support herself outside of family giving her help. So hopefully after her son is born she can keep up the hard work. I know it won't be easy. I'm a mom with at 13 month old and I'm having another baby and its hard its not easy. She really doesn't have a partner but you don't need one to raise a child. As long as you don't regret what choices you make in life you will always be happy. If you are or are not pregnant that choice of what to do with this possible pregnancy is really up to you and you only.
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• United States
17 Mar 12
If you do end up pregnant, regardless of what your boyfriend says, he needs to understand that it's your body and your choice. You should not be forced into an abortion if you don't want it. It's one thing if you both mutually agree to it, it's another if he tries and coerce you into doing it. Carefully weigh your options and understand what may happen if you do choose to continue with the potential pregnancy. With a strong network of support, even if your boyfriend does choose to leave you over this, you can still have a baby without his help.
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• Philippines
16 Mar 12
NO!! because it is inhumane and its immoral.. you have no right to end a life of an innocent baby, just for the sake of unpreparedness.. in the 1st place you should have not done that if in the end, you never accepts and is not ready of whatever responsibility it takes. but please, in the name of God his holiness, don't abort the baby.. you know, you are one of the luckiest people to be blessed by God of having one, just think of those people who finds it difficult to have one.. okay? you'll know that its nice to have one than to kill one.. :)
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 May 12
hi princess now he knew damned well there was a possility you might get pregnant so why is he doing this, I doub the crossing the bridge when he got t o it meant abortion,to me abortion is murder, you would be killing a n innocent baby, that is wrong.that is my own feeling on abortion and I think he is wrong, what do you want to do?have the baby why not? although if you are n ot married that is something else but the moderns will not think about the legality so who am I to say anything,. I got married first then had children so the old way is passe I guess. now women live with three or four men and have kids be them all, all born out of wedlock and it d es not bother any of them wow.Do you want to keep the baby? you can and that would be the best way and perhaps once the baby was here your boyfriend might change his mind as its his baby too?
@chevill (316)
• Philippines
18 May 12
im sure you will regret it if you will what u planning now. pray
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
i am against abortion. but it is acceptable in some instances, like when the mother is in danger and the family and doctors have to make a choice between the mother and the baby. and yes, not everyone is bless to have a child so please think about it. don't do it. if your boyfriend doesn't want the baby then leave him. who would you choose? the baby who is your flesh and blood and innocent? or your boyfriend who only thinks about himself?
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@yansky23 (404)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
Abortion is a grevious sin. But not there are situations that people have no choice. There are cases called medical abortion where the mother's life is in grave danger if she continue her labor. So that really depends upon the situation.
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