What makes a good listener?
By ecaron
@ecaron (678)
Canada
March 19, 2012 11:41am CST
I think a good listener is a person who really takes an interest in what you have to say. A person who doesn't interrupt you in the middle of your sentences. A person who after hearing all you have to say can respond well because they really heard you. I don't know many people like that, even my own husband doesn't listen as well as he used to because he thinks he can read my mind and he thinks he knows what I am going to say. It's frustrating sometimes, because I can't even finish my sentence and he says he knows already what I'm trying to say. I think sometimes, that's why I like my lot because I can write down all my thoughts with no interrruptions and then people can respond, it's become a good alternative for me since my husband is not a very good listener, anymore. Your thoughts or stories, My Lot, friends!
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7 responses
@katie4720011 (218)
• United States
19 Mar 12
A good listener is exactly this. Someone who truly listens and does not interrupt and someone who is genuinely interested in what you have to say. Anyone can hear someone but not everyone will really listen. I too find Mylot a great place to put your thoughts and be able to hear responses from others around the world. People can be so helpful and can give you different perspectives to your problems. Here is the place that they really listen.
@smilemoon (766)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Mar 12
I think a good listener is the one who really pay attentions and doesn't intrupt the speaker.
@sanofer (525)
• India
23 Mar 12
you have described very nicely about the characters of people who are good listeners. if we listen to others properly,we can identify and get many good points to improve our life. if we are a good listener, we can easily make others to listen to us. listening skill is very important in nowadays jobs. if we don't listen to our clients properly,we don't understand what is our clients requirements and we may end up with wrong outputs.
if a person has a good interest and patience to listen he is called as a good listener.as you said he should not interrupt. he should listen the whole conversation fully and after we finish,the good listener will ask their doubts.some people like your husband thinks that they can read others mind easily and they will not listen what we are trying to say. it is really not a good habit and people of those kind should change their attitude. they should understand the fact that,if they don't listen others,others wont listen to them.
@victorkrish (1614)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 12
In my point of view, a good listener who is cope or focus to any matter and being a good observer. They just listen and will respond as well as try to give a good opinion. It is a kind of good characters.
@AmericanNotes (82)
• United States
29 Mar 12
A Good Listener to me is Someone who is fully engaged in the conversation, some people listen but don't care enough to get the issue, others think they know everything, but someone who is fully involved giving eye contact , you can't refute that he is not listening it's obvious!
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
19 Mar 12
A good listener is one who will pay attention to what you have to say. Thus, a good listener is one who will want to clarify by asking questions to fully understand what you are talking about.
I love mylot too for the same reasons.






