ex...extra stupid..and extra naive..?!!

March 20, 2012 7:04am CST
gosh..mylotters..i just cant believe it..my high school best friend and my high school sweetheart who is now my ex..was now celebrating their 6th year anniversary..... for betraying me..i thought i already move on.. but cant believe myself for crying so much today.. he is my first love..kiss..and hurts.. why does first love can be so much traumatic.. why on earth i just cant forget him the way i forgot my depths.. so funny and crazy..gosh..help me get through this,,..
4 responses
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
I have also experienced that kind of love betrayal a long time ago. But our situation was different. Mine was I never had any relationship with the guy but I am so in love to him. The guy knew about my feelings for him. My best-friend in college also knew about the guy and my feelings because I always share it to her. Until one time I didn't expect that they are already exchanging messages to each other. Now to make the story short, they ended up having each other. I know I don't have the right but I love the guy and how come the my best-friend betrayed me. No, they both betrayed me. Anyway, unlike you, I have already moved on! You too must move on my friend. I know it is not easy but it is the right thing to do. Don't hope too much that the guy will be back to you.
• Canada
21 Mar 12
So much for a ''high school best friend'' if they are together with your ex since the day you first cried over him. Do you believe in Karma? Well I do. What goes around comes around. Wish them happiness, but I can guarantee you, that it won't last forever. One or the other will end up walking away sooner or later, it could even take 10 years from now.Just think how bad the 2 of them will hurt then. I know this is horrible advice, but at least by then you would have moved on, or should have by now. I know it still hurts hun, but just think, you will be happier with a new guy who TREATS you right! You will also make much better friends!
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
maybe you cried because you didn't expect they will last that long..and after so many years, you still haven't forgive them.. forgive what they have done to you..and you'll have peace in your heart..in that way, you'll forget about the pain..and will just take it as an experience learnt..
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
It is normal to get hurt. Just move on with your life now and wish them happiness.