With your current relationship, are you happy or do you want to let it go?

Philippines
March 21, 2012 3:08pm CST
There are dif'rent levels of our current relationship. Some just averagely happy, some really happy, some of us would also want to just let go. What about you, happy, sad or would like to simply forget everything because it's not really working and you just want to go separate ways? Tell us about it or could be, we could share ideas and emotions too...advices as well.
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14 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
My relationship to my partner is very exhausted and weird. I don't really like the situation because she always ruin everything and has another man all the way she is away or I am away from her. I always forgive her but it's really annoying and tired for being into that relationship...
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
Then...you have to let her go. You deserve a good woman to take care and love you with all honesty. What she's doing is just so unfair on your part. Think about it... before it's too late on your part.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
Yup! I am thinking about it and file a law suit against her before I let her go so that if she face the bar of justice she realize that she committed many sins and crimes...I don't want her to just let go without realizing many things in her life. She commit many sins with me, into the eyes of God and into eyes of the people and violating the law...
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
I will choose to let go. I believe that life is too short to spend it on someone who doesn't make you happy anymore.
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
Very well said, chloe1055! It'll never be worth it if you experience more of the "painful" side than the happy ones.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
22 Mar 12
there was a period where we separated. but after counseling we got back together. in total we are together 12 yrs, 11 yrs of it married and we both are now happier and stronger than before
@kedralynn (980)
• United States
23 Mar 12
I am moderately happy. I want more. We've been together 3 years. We live together. We have pets together. I do all the cooking and cleaning and I work. He works out of town so we have little time together each day. I try to keep the house running smoothly so he can rest when he gets home. But yes at times I want more. I want him to propose to me. We are already acting as a married couple. But he tells me I need to get a better job first. I don't like him putting conditions on that. I want him to be romantic and just propose because he loves me and wants to be with me. Because he doesn't, sometimes I wonder if he really loves me as much as he says. That makes me worry sometimes and I feel less secure in the relationship. But when I'm not worrying about that, I m happy!
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
my answer for this is very short " I AM HAPPY WITH MY RELATIONSHIP AND I CANT CITE OUT REASONS" BECAUSE IF THAT REASON WILL BE GONE.SURELY LOVE WILL ALSO FADE;)
• India
5 Jul 12
I am very much happy because we truly, deeply love each other. I’m sure he’s feeling the same way too. I will never let him go because he is very sincere to me. He is open to all the things whether it’s positive or negative. We are very sharing to each other. We hate keeping secrets. I thank God because we have a healthy relationship.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
I am happy and very contended with my marriage. I thank God I chose the right man. We have been married for more than 26 years now. I pray that God will keep blessing our marriage and for us to keep loving as long as we live in this world. I can't thank God more for the blessing of a real happy marriage that I have been enjoying.
@enavnai13 (509)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
as for my current relationship, i can say that i am extremely happy and contented with it.. we are already together for quite some time.. we will be 5 years together this april.. at first it's a challenge for us but as months pass by, we learned to work on our differences and adjusted to what each other's wants.. i guess the secret to a successful relationship is not just to trust each other but also commitment.. i used to hang out with guys before, particularly my close friends.. but when i met my boyfriend, it changed.. he is the type who would never want me to hang out often with guys especially when he is not around.. well maybe because he knew about my history.. for the first couple of months, i did not understand that but i realized that it could certainly bring our relationship to an end that's why i decided to adjust.. and commit to what i have started.. so right now, we are still very happy with each other..
@kukai127 (67)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
I am happy with my relationship. Though there are times that I really can't stand the distance that I think I might go crazy, I just reminisce the happy times we have. Currently, my husband is in Australia and I'm still here in the Philippines. But I'm working on my visa to be with him. It just sucks at times that you cannot see him smile nor see his face glow whenever you're around. We've been friends since elementary days. Became the best of friends and got married. And I wouldn't change a thing. That's how happy I am.
@ShyBear88 (59285)
• Sterling, Virginia
21 Mar 12
I'm every happy with my relationship with my husband and I believe he would say the same thing as well. We are going on 2 years in our marriage made it through the first year not only being married but being parents as well. I'm looking forward to this year coming up with me and my husband. No only are we a parents to one child but another one as well that is coming in September. The best advise I could give to someone when it comes to relationships is communication having an open line between you and your partner. If your not happy with that person that its maybe just not meant to be and you might want to go your different ways or try to fix what ever problems there may be.
• United States
22 Mar 12
I am totally happy in my marriage and have no intentions of letting it go. It takes work however it is so worht it.
@TheIzers (680)
21 Mar 12
I am happy with my relationship, we were friends for 3 years before we were in relationship a year later we got married. Now here we are after 5 years marriage we haven't change feeling with each other, maybe because we have some things in common like cook, camp, travel, etc. so I guess we enjoy with each other.
@tagakolo (46)
• United States
21 Mar 12
For now i am happy with my marriage.I have a 15 months old baby boy that keep me busy all the time.There are no perfect marriage in this world,i've been married for 4years and there are sometimes that i thought i'm about to give up my marriage. Nobody is perfect,we have a lots of issues in our marriage due to a lot of differences.My husband is 17 years older than me and i have a lots of expections that only disappoint me.At first i thought that marrying him is an advantage because his older than i am and i thought that he is mature emotionally,spiritually and mentally.But i was wrong,sometimes i felt like i'm more mature than him.But i learn a lot and we still growing in maturity everyday.For me marriage is an adventure,you never know what might come up in the future.You think you know your partner very well but sometimes they surprise you.The good thing is you need to accept them of who they are and try to understand them.
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
i'm not married yet. i'm in a relationship for about 2 years, it's a long distance love affair. and i can say right now, i'm not happy with it. i wanted to let him go.but everytime i'm with him, i can feel happiness, but when we depart, i feel pain. he broke my heart and trust many times. right now, i can't give it back to him. but i still love him though. but I really wanted to let go..