When the gf of your boyfriend's twin turns out to be a villain :|

@dyeni23 (128)
March 21, 2012 4:06pm CST
Yes my boyfriend for almost 7mos now, has a twin. His brother and I do get along and he's happy with the relationship of his brother and I. So I have this friend I knew way back from province where I took my college degree. We were never classmates, but belonging to the same course, plus that we aren't that many in numbers, we know and smile at each other tho we are from different section. Now that she's also working here in Manila, she often texts me before to go hang out with her. I agreed of course knowing she doesn't have friends yet here. Time came that she finally met my boyfriend, we took pictures. His twin saw her in the picture and bang! He fell inlove. They dated and from then we all noticed that she isn't a good person after all. We found out that she's a selfish social climber narrow minded user. And though his twin saw the bad side of her and all, he still went for her. There was a time his twin texted me and after telling me what happened, he asks for my advice and told me also not to share this with the girl. So, I told him my point of view that the girl has lotsa issues and I'm feeling bad vibes with her. But there was a time that his twin left his cell to the table while they're having dinner, and she, having no manners scanned the cellphone. And pretty sure she read my text. When she confronted me and asks for an explanation, I simply said you won't get an apology because I have my rationale behind ever statements I've made but im not in the position to tell her because what contains in the cell are private conversation that even she shouldn't know. Eventually, they became a couple too but we aren't in the friendship zone anymore. My boyfriend doesn't like her too but in respect to his twin we remain civil with her. Sometimes it makes me really pissed when I'm hearing from his twin that her gf treats him inferiorly. From the province, she's a no one. And she doesn't have friends. Us having her taste a little of the social life here in Manila made her see herself as someone superior. Until now, we aren't talking even when my boyfriend and his family are having a family bonding and their mom would invite us. One time my bf confronted her asking how is our relationship, me and her and she tells him it's fine but then lately she removed me on her fb list of friends. Horrible liar, that's her. Now why am I sharing this? For an SOS :( because there are times that there are plans made that turns out into just a talk because she doesn't want to cooperate. Reasons, egocentric. That even his bf tells her how selfish and narrow minded she is. It affects me and my boyfriend in a way too whenever that happens.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
First and foremost, I just would like to advise you on how you discuss your topic. It would be easier for the reader if you would separate thoughts in different paragraphs because it just look too crowded - no pun intended. As for the topic, I think it's normal for females in a group (brother boyfriends) to at least clash once in a while, but I don't think it was appropriate of you guys to talk about the girlfriend through text messaging. I mean, don't you ever go through your boyfriend's phone? I don't think she was being a witch because I do that too. And if I did and I saw that my friend is backbiting me to my boyfriend would be something that I would be angry about. I know that there are people that we evidently don't like, perhaps it's justified. But the truth is, we can't do anything about it. It's better for them to split up for their own reasons rather than them splitting up because of our information or biases. I guess the thought "Mind your own business" should be practiced in this situation. Sooner or later the brother would eventually just learn from his mistakes and let go of this girl. However, if he doesn't then it's his cross to carry. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
@dyeni23 (128)
22 Mar 12
Hello there laydee, thanks for the tip :) they weren't a couple when she went over his bf's cell. I don't do that though he is my boyfriend already. I just don't because I view a cellphone as something personal. I also told him when he texted me about what happened to talk it out to the girl but he told me never mind cos he thinks that's the way she really is. He was hurt by what she did, I guess texting it to me is somewhat like an outlet also to him.
• India
5 Jul 12
She’s very selfish. She doesn’t have good heart. Why does your boyfriend’s twin is still attached to her when she’s not treating everyone else well. She’s even lying in front of your boyfriend that you and she are doing fine when eventually she’s not good to you. Ignore and be happy, don’t be affected with her negative side.