What will you do?

@tipay26 (867)
Philippines
March 22, 2012 2:49am CST
What will you do if you found out that you were pregnant before getting married?Will you let your future husband know about it and why? Some men are afraid of having a big responsibility being a first time father.For me if it's for real a real man will stay no matter what and will provide for his family.How about the others?What's your stand on this?
8 responses
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
getting pregnant before marriage nowadays is common. and if i'm in that situation i'll inform the guy it's his right to know my situation. and it's up to him if he stand with me or not.
@seemared (771)
22 Mar 12
Well..if you do have a guy to get married then why get pregnated by another guy?
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
it's not getting pregnant by another guy other than your future husband.my question goes if you knew you were pregnant before you were married by the same guy hihihih :)
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@seemared (771)
22 Mar 12
That would be fine.I could live with that and more of all it's 'him' so it's not a big deal, my parents would be ok as he is the guy to whom I am getting married. most probably our parents would urge to get married soon before it gets late.
@seemared (771)
22 Mar 12
well..my husband was open enough to let me into an open relationship..even though so, he would be devasted if he knows I am pregnated by another guy as there are rules on which the open relationship that I am in is defined. So, it is a no go and to avoid pregnancy, I do attend my doctor every week, just to make sure that I would the mother of his only.
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
well i guess i have to rephrase my discussion it's getting pregnant by the same guy sorry my bad hahahah...the scenario would be you were pregnated by the same guy before you two were married :)
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@seemared (771)
22 Mar 12
I wouldn't mind that..he would be ready, of course..and most of all , as I would be getting married with him, it won't be a big issue. It would be just that our marriage would happen early in such a case and about being a parent early? well it all happens un expected right?
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
22 Mar 12
I wouldn't definitely tell him. And I think that it would be important for him to stay. After all it would be his responsibility as well. I think that most men who are in a serious committed relationship would stay. As for those men who just are out to have fun then they would run from their responsibilities. And that is sad for the woman and child as well.
24 Mar 12
Definitely I will inform the guy even if he is not man enough to accept it,we both did this so he has to know and whatever happens I will stand my ground because I will be accountable to my child when he/she grows up and look for his/her father, every child has the right to know their father.
@tagakolo (46)
• United States
25 Mar 12
I will tell him the truth.If he avoided the responsibility,he is not man enough for me.
• United States
1 Apr 12
You should defiantely tell your future husband. He is going to have to be responsible for the child also. Plus, if he truly cares for you then he will step up and be a father. If he chooses to run, he is not the type of man that you really want to marry. You want someone who is going to step up and be a good husband and a good father. You don't want someone that would run, not be responsible, and leave you with a child that you both created.
• Australia
22 Mar 12
I would let him no. He deserves to know if he really loves you he will support you. You shouldn't have to think about it all on your own. Let him help you
• India
22 Mar 12
Marry him soon convincing the fact how important for me is my baby.