Haters are losers!

By Toni
@toniganzon (77137)
Philippines
March 22, 2012 7:02am CST
Today, once again i'm a victim of another hater. I have blocked people on my twitter account who threw nothing but hate words on me, questioning my God and my religion when i'm not even micro-blogging much about it. Then there's someone who tell people admiring me how bad i am as a person and as a mother to my son. This person spent time and effort to tell others that i'm not beautiful and i'm the worst mother because i play with my son's toys. This person is accusing me of being a liar and not genuine. I don't know what her motive is. I pity her though coz she's wasting her time convincing others how bad i am and they tell them she knew me well because she's been fiends with me for quite some time. Well, some friend she is! I don't even know her at all.
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10 responses
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
22 Mar 12
You did the right thing. You blocked that person. You don't need to have to read all that garbage at all. I would not worry what people say about me. I know lots of people don't like me anyway, and I could care less. Just because you're religious is no reason for someone to bash you. I sometimes write my views of religion, I am not religious at all, but I get some people basin me for my views. I don't care and neither should you. You have the right to believe what you like. And playing with your son and his toys in no way makes you a bad mother. That actually makes you a good mother. Not many parents sit and play with their children. Just write that person off.
@toniganzon (77137)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
That person is an idiot. And yeah i totally agree with you on not caring what others say about me. As long as i know myself and i don't harm others, i'm ok.
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@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
28 Mar 12
Exactly. Thats what I like to hear. You are cool and you are a real person. Thats the way I wish everyone was.
@Runite (307)
• United States
23 Mar 12
Well those kind of haters are losers but not all of them, just ignore them and block them if they bother you too much, for me the haters helped me quite a lot.
@toniganzon (77137)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
They are all losers! Why the heck would they destroy other people's reputation? The only satisfaction they get is if you get affected by what they say.
@Runite (307)
• United States
23 Mar 12
By saying that can mean saying all Germans are Nazis. The only thing they'll get is pity since majority of them only scream at people for having different opinions and having nothing of the person they are hating on. Some haters (really barely since most of the "haters" are people screaming "hater") have their hate from something personal or they have some other reasons to hate.
@yanzalong (19091)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 12
How did you know that she was backbiting you? Did anyone tell you or you caught her saying that? If you were told, you'd better not to believe what he or she said to you. If you knew the person, I think it would be a good idea if you came over and have it out with her about what exactly and what motive she had.
@toniganzon (77137)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
I was told by a person who i trusted and i don't have an idea who that hater is. I saw all his messages since it was done on a chat room. There's a history in that chat room where i can see all the messages of all the users. I'm not stupid and the person who told me knows me well enough not to believe that creep!
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
I wonder what triggered this particular hater to badmouth you Toni. I am sure, that she is just envious of whatever you have in life. I think she reads your blogs of the things you have in life, thus feels so much envy. And so that you won't be happy despite your good things in life she's bad mouthing you. She had to be really taught a lesson, Toni.
@toniganzon (77137)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Actually light was shed into this darkness when a friend told me this SHE turned out to be a HE and yeah you read my discussion on that one. And he was taught a lesson he'll never ever forget.
• United States
23 Mar 12
Sheesh, gotta love how people can just smacktalk others so freely on the internet, huh? Sometimes haters can be a good thing because they can often point at flaws someone has they wouldn't notice otherwise, but most of the time they just spew nonsense to try and get someone riled up. In the end, if you get involved in that, everyone comes out looking like a fool. You did good by blocking that person and avoiding all the possible drama that would've resulted.
@toniganzon (77137)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Well, i don't have time to waste on that no good person. So i chose to fight silently.
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 12
just be grateful then. If she/he hate you, maybe you shold make some improvement. Blocking their twitter account i think was not necessary. By doing so, they may feel succeed to make you annoyed.
@Runite (307)
• United States
23 Mar 12
Let them feel good as much as they want, they just don't know that they are pitied.
@cheszka (167)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
Those are negative people, They probably can't do anything productive with their time so they just bash people and throw negative comments at them. This person you mentioned could be someone you know personally, and is so envious of you and your achievements. There's really nothing we can do about these negative people. Yes they really are losers, so let's just stay away from them, block them or delete them from our network of friends.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
22 Mar 12
Generally speaking haters are no losers at all. If you always are running out, never tell STOP, never tell what you want, swallow everything, hope for better than you are a loser. Hate can also have a very good reason, a very very good one. And if you start hating someone who really hurt you it will make you stronger to teach this person a lesson. And that is what it's all about. Not being afraid of other adults who seem to look stronger, not always being the underdog or being back stabbed by so called friends. It's about fighting for your own life and goals and dreams, telling others not to abuse you and let you do the things in your way. Hate can be useful. We correct and raise kids, we should do the same with adults who are bad. Instead of hoping, praying for that person once to be punished and neglecting our own wishes.
@toniganzon (77137)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
I think you misunderstood hate as a motivation as opposed to haters who's main purpose in life is to destroy others.
• India
5 Jul 12
Haters are most definitely losers with a lot of time on their hands. I am trying to imagine where I would get the time to start talking ill of a friend. People become friends and enemies. The mature thing to do is let your ex-friends be. I do not understand how playing with your sons toys is related to your beauty or your personality. Just ignore her and with time she will shut up.
@neerruu (134)
• India
5 Jul 12
there must be some reason why they hate you,that could be due to something you have done or may be it's just some misunderstanding. don't worry about that, just delete your account and make a new one and first of all block that person who is speaking ill of you,she won't even know that you made a new account and because she won't be able to search you on twitter. cheers and thank you,