relationship judgement
By janec88
@janec88 (46)
March 26, 2012 1:06pm CST
It sounds strange to heard when you can hear the word I love you to a particular person yet the actions can even proved that He/she loves you in reality. I suppose to be mature enough to deal when it comes to having a relationship to anyone especially when it comes to loving someone. If a guy cheats his boyfriend then people will see it that's okey because it's guys nature to do that sometimes but if a girl cheats then people tend to judge you so bad. That's how unfair life can be. If only both parties can understand and learn how to make satisfy for eah other then people can have the best relationship ever have to anyone else.
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6 responses
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
I heard that a lot. They said it is ok if a man cheats because they are men, but if it is woman who cheats, that is a different story. I don't know why people always say that especially men. When the man cheats the wife and he asked forgiveness to the wife, and the wife forgave him, but if the wife cheats even just flirting and she asks forgiveness, he will never accept her apology. But for me, men or women cheats, are cheater and they are the same.
@janec88 (46)
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27 Mar 12
Thanks for your response. I believe so that if the wife commits mistake to her husband that's a different story. People can't realize that both man and woman are human being. Sometimes a man or even a woman commit mistakes. To avoid those things to happen both partners should need to help each other take good care of the relationship because I believe that having a relationship is a big responsibility to take.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
26 Mar 12
Cheaters are only cheaters wheather its a guy or a gal. As good and bad persons are in both genders.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
The likelihood of women getting more of the blame in such situation of cheating is relevant to the old age myth of man's superiority over a woman, physically and emotionally. Probably based on the cultures and traditions making man as more dominant in each every aspect in society.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Mar 12
I agree with you men have way more freedom to do what they like. Especially if it comes to what society thinks.
But more as 50% of the society are women! As long as we accept this behaviour men can do what they like.
BTW I read something interesting today. In the old India men who were cheating did get punished! The part of the nose of those cheating men was cut off so everybody could see what they had done (by trying to fix that the first plastic surgery was invented btw).
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Ohh no.. i think i'm in this kind of situation. But not really sure though. Yes this is a fact. It's true.. and i don't understand why. But what i know is that, It could be more hurting to men when a girl cheats his guy. They can't admit it, but if the girl cheats on them, it would really hurt them bad. That's why guys tend to take revenge or something just to get over with it. Life happens. and sometimes, it's unfair...
@donghski (29)
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27 Mar 12
Yes,both sexes should be treated equally. Being faithful or being dishonest should not be judge according to gender.It has something to do being what and who you are and being how committed you are to the person you've been with. Action speaks louder than words, even you've heard the words i love you, it does not mean that its always real. Sometimes, its more than words to know what is real or not.
