Are you in relationship with no legal marriage?

Philippines
March 27, 2012 3:28am CST
A lot of partner have been with the girl or boy and with no legal marriage.It is very known in here in our country.Philippines. And i know some,and i sure that any time the both partner will decide to break up,and will break up because they do not have proof that they are married.But even a lot of legal marriage, still to break up and it could be many reason why they do that.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
I am not yet into that kind of relationship, befrind. I said not yet because in case I meet someone whom I really love, I'm willing to take the risks. If marriage is not yet possible, I'll wait for the right time. But of course, every woman wants to get married, to wear a beautiful gown, to be a center of attraction at least for one day.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Yes. I am still single. I want to be double, but it's not that easy. Yes. Just wait for the right time, befrind.
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Are you still single?.I am sure that you want the right person for you,and even me also i am waiting about the right time to be married..And hope i get the best ,and will enjoy.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
so many says that marriage is just a piece of paper..well, it is their choice, some are not ready for the legalities of it and maybe some are just happy the way it is. I was just married last year after 8 years of being together with my husband. It didn't come in between us, we got married because our kids also started asking questions and that we want to make it a lot more formal now. I have friends who stay unmarried as they want it and only them can tell why.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
yes paper is a proof for the marriage, legally it is what we can bring to prove, but if we talk about love even that paper could not show the proof of love
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Yes true,its only a paper,but even paper,it proves that you and her are married it means identification. But,it's good that the partner married,and promise to love each other,and also for kids also will grow good...Yes some are still not married.
@onthetop (193)
• United States
27 Mar 12
it all depend on person to person. in my opinion living relationship is not good for long term. so if you need long term relationship avoid living relationship and go for marriage.
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• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Long relation is depends on the true love,and faithfulness of both partner.Long relationship include to have legal marriage,and what ever things to come, must be fix of both partner.
• India
28 Mar 12
Hello onthetop, actual a leaving relation ship requard more understanding than a marriage relationship. So that right its very hard to spent long time in leaving relationship. But if there have lot of love and lot of understanding that this trick will working. Nice to meet you. Hope to see you again. Have a nice day.
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
No. I'm officially, legally for him, my husband *wink! We got civilly married at the start because of our financial status. After almost 9 years being in that marriage, we got our church wedding. We lived-in together for 3 months. I'm pregnant then and we're working though for our civil marriage that time. Legal matters I think is not an assurance of a lasting relationship. It really depends on the partners. A responsible act will save us for being heart broken, alone and unloved in the future...
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• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Yep,its on the partner ,how they work together,and adjustment ,because if they have matured mind in everything, i think relationship will stay long.
@bhonti (1246)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Technically, I am in a relationship with no legal marriage YET. I have a boyfriend, but we do not live in the same house. Those who do are called "lived-in partners." I am not one of them and I do not plan to be in a relationship like that.
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@bhonti (1246)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Well, depends on the principle of the person. Some prefer this kind of relationship because of the convenience and other things. I am more of a traditional person and I like to get married first.
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
We can't control that people live in relationship with no married yet is because maybe there is still plan,and also not ready yet. It's good that you are not in live in partner..
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
in my opinion why people tend to live together and marry later is due to financial aspects. and some people also tend to living together with no legal marriage is that maybe they aren't ready for a lifetime responsibilities. getting married is not that easy that the next day if you feel like the relationship is not working couples will just say "it's over" and aside from that the value you spend for your wedding is twice or more to get an annulment.
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Could be a lot of reason why just to be relation and not in married yet. Like financial ,its true,it takes time and planning,but when they making a child already is not plan i think .because if they do plan,they should marry first,and then save money until to have kids so they will not be in the hard time .
• India
28 Mar 12
Hello friend, actual I am from different country and here we can see like that. But a leaving relationship needs more understanding than marriage relationship. Otherwise cant continue. So I respect those are happy with leave in realtionship and spent more years. Actual no I am not in leave in relationship. Nice to meet you friend. Hope to see you again. Hve a nice day.
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Yes more on understanding,than marriage.Reasons of some people leave relationship is maybe there is problems,and also there is fight.Maybe they are in the wrong one.
@TheIzers (680)
28 Mar 12
Living legal married maybe for some people who do not want to have children therefore they can break up anytime they want without any consequences. But for couple who thinking about having children they should start thinking about getting married before having one. There are alot of consequences at children part when their parent don't have legal relationship.
@TheIzers (680)
28 Mar 12
I mean to say "Living together without legal married maybe for some people who do not want to have children...
@JDaw2006 (428)
• United States
28 Mar 12
I got married. I got married at the court house and then about a month later i got married again in a church. I had always thought that i was going to live with a guy first before i married him but it didnt work out like that for me. I do now alot of people that are just dating their loved ones and live with them. But the law here is that if you live with someone for i think 7 years then you are married with out really going and getting married. i my self would rather get married for real in a real church so that all your family can come and cry and remember your special day.
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