How To React When Somebody Is Abusing You For Your Mistake .........

Um...why would you want to react? If I will be placed in such a situation, I will not react in any way. Yeah, I will feel insulted but hey, at least they did it in front of me. I do not do well if I'm insulted behind my back so if somebody will, I will just take the hit...of course, I will also ask them why do they say something like that...And I will also ask whether they are educated in someway...and then tell them that "I don't think that will be the character of such an educated person." with a smile. Happy MyLotting!

I find that if I speak first, admit and apologize for my mistake, it prevents the verbal abuse. If it doesn't, I walk away. No one has the right to verbally abuse me for any reason. Mature people talk reasonably and avoid name calling.

Calling you names isn't going to change what happened. All you can do, if you are sorry for any mistake you've made, is apologize.

There is a saying : Except Satan everyone does mistake. Who abuse you for your mistake he or she is Satan. Avoid that bloody person. Give him or her same return.

hi ganesh, Hare Krishna This is sad that some people bad mouthing about someone's mistakes we are humans and we are not perfect. Glad that until today no one ever said that to me or else one wrong word and I don't know what I can do to her/him. I will try to ignore maybe and think that person is more idiot than me like what he/she thinks. happy mylotting

We all have mistakes. We are humans. Well, there are different kinds to deal with such situation. If I hurt that body, I'll apologize. If that one just trying to get red of me, I may ignore him/her. In another way, I'll tell him to take it simply.

Usually when someone crisizes someone else, it speaks more about them than it does the person that they critisizing.

My way is to laugh at them and admit to all their name calling, it doesn't matter if they are right or wrong, we all make mistakes. But if you are laughing and agree with them they will back off. Who knows they may even come over to your side. It's no fun for them to point out what you did wrong if you agree with them. They are looking to make you feel bad and if they can't do that what's the point.

I think I don't act well or correct, I was bullied in highschool for being a foreingner but one day I stood up for the leader and I'm thankfull I learned what courage is but I still act that way, I mean violently. They always stopped but the truth is I do prefer if I really didn't care but I do, I get pissed. And go crazy.

I can understand open and honest criticism, but abuse is another thing. People will react in all sorts of different ways. They will either give off a chortle, or giggle because they are feeling embarrassed, or they will completely shut down and remain silent; and then there are other who totally stick up for themselves either with a red in the face blow out or telling them off in a polite manner before things got too serious. If someone was abusing me in a manner that disgraced me, I would simply tell them how I felt about their distasteful ignorance, and take a hard look in the mirror themselves before ever making someone feel like shi* .

human beings usually knowing or without knowing commit mistakes..one should not abuse with bad words..instead try to tell how that mistakes effects...so they can realize their mistakes.....Thank You.

Realize yourself you have made a mistake, and that by making that mistake, you have the opportunity to learn from it. This is something you can verbalize to your assailant and remind them that everyone makes mistakes, and that you will likely make more in the future. Just as they have or will. It’s all about being human.