I texted my ex boyfriend an he replied an agreed to meet me. doest it means???

@nicegilr (214)
March 27, 2012 5:23pm CST
I have been with my ex boyfriend for about 4 years an a half. but i broke up with him its been 4 month now. I miss him so much. He never call me , text me. But last night i text him and tell him that i miss him and that i want to see him. he replied to my text. An he agreed to see me. Is that means that he still love me? How does a boy feels after a break up? Does ex boyfriend can still have feelings after 4 month of break up ?
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Maybe he still have feelings for you and the reason why he didn't text you or call you was because he respect your decision of breaking up with him. And maybe he was just giving you time and space to think. Of course men gets hurt also after breaking up. I have some male friends who cried after their girlfriends dumped them.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 12
why you are so surprised when the man cried too when their girlfriend left them?? a man is human too
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
i had feeling like that of course iam so sad too when somebody left me i cry too when my sister passed away... so, man can cry too chicgale..:)
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
I am not surprised coz I know they are human and have feelings too. In my statement above, I was just saying that men cries too after breaking up and I have witnessed some of my male friends who cried after breaking up.
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@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
27 Mar 12
You were together for four years. That is a long time to be with someone. I'm sure that he still cares for you. Four months is a very short time. Sometimes it takes people years to get over someone. I know when my ex and I broke up it was four years later and I still hadn't gotten over him. I didn't think I ever would. Hopefully you two will be able to take care of whatever happened between the two of you. Let me know how things go. I look forward to hopefully hearing that the two of you were able to get back together. I'm glad that you texted him and let him know how you felt.
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@nicegilr (214)
28 Mar 12
we will meet next sundy . than I'll tell you what happend and what he say ??
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• United States
28 Mar 12
Good. I hope that everything goes well like you want it to. It is nice to be able to get back together with the person that we love after you have been separated for some time. You really do come to appreciate how much you care for them when you are no longer together.
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@nicegilr (214)
30 Mar 12
it's okay now!
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
27 Mar 12
yes it can be possible in many cases it depends from the past break so the real reson why you and your boyfriend broke...in reality for some important or hard reason may be re-start a ew relatonship can be difficult but if reasons were soft may be it is possible..
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@nicegilr (214)
27 Mar 12
I don't know He love me nor not and he use me for his time pass!...
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• Italy
27 Mar 12
ok in many cases the second but it is impossible to judge a situation that i don't aware precisely..
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Mar 12
It really could be the case that he does still have feelings for you. I've actually recently learned that exes can have feelings for us still after many years have passed. The reason that I learned this is because I became friends with my ex on facebook and he spent quite a lot of time talking to me on the computer and during that time he did tell me that he still has feelings for me. We were together when I was 19-20 years old and I'm going to be 32 years old in just a couple weeks.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
so nicegirl, had you met your ex now?
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@nicegilr (214)
29 Mar 12
Yes we meet ... And happy now!!!!!
@nicegilr (214)
28 Mar 12
wayo After 10 - 12 years you boy friend still love you and still have feelings for you . it's great and you are realy lucky enough.
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
28 Mar 12
Hum! Dear the only time I had this kind of friendship and we decided to meet after 3 years was because yes, he wanted to go back. We had a lot of unfinished bussiness, I break up still in love to him but he was so stress, I was not ready or had maturity to understand but also he was taking on me, sometimes being really rude and raising his voice. When we got back it was wonderful. I don't think men will accept an invitation if he's not interested. Not when they are exes. If it's a friend than we'll never know until they do something, now an ex...it means something.
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• Philippines
28 Mar 12
That is very much possible,4 months is not that long compared to those years that you and him are together and shared. Maybe he only waited for you to make the first move, since you're the one who broke up with him. You will get to know the real score once you've meet him again. Who knows, this time love will be forever, 4 years is enough I guess to know if he really loves you or just using you for timepass.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
27 Mar 12
There is no way to know that until you talk to him. He might still have feelings.You do so it is quite possible. I would not get my hopes up ahead of time though. Just talk and see how it goes. It could also mean that he has accepted the breakup and is at a point where he can talk to you as a friend. I know you are hoping for things to go well and so for your sake I'm hoping they do. You'll have to let us know.
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@larish (2191)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
I am not sure of his feelings. If he still loves you, how come he didn't call or text you first? Why is it that you have to do the first move? Since you mention to your text that you miss him, he might think differently. He might think that you lust him & not because he loves you.
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 12
it depends nice.. don`t assume when he agreed, it means that he come back easily for you i think it need time for both of you for repeating your sweetest moment i think...
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
so maybe you can share after you meet him.. okay
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@nicegilr (214)
28 Mar 12
Great Things you have I hope we'll meat again and enjoy our moments .. Thanks a lot.
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@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
You can only learn the value of something once you've lost it. You have admittedly felt so, and hopefully he would the same, but the chances are high since amicably giving an affirmation of your meeting together. I hope would love be lovelier and sweeter the second time around. Good luck.
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@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
yes it is possible that he still loves you. after all you have been together for 4 years and it is only a few months since you broke up. feelings don't die that easily unless maybe there is anger or hatred. i don't know the reason of your break up but i just hope for the best for the both of you
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• Philippines
28 Mar 12
Oh well, that is love. I can't say anything right now whether it be good or bad. I don't know the circumstances and the feelings he has for you. I believe that as you probably read this response, love is again in the air. The time you had might be wonderful, ending up with a lot of romance. I hope that you end up together for the rest of your life. I don't know but probably, it's the step to another chance for your love affair.
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
It depends really! Base on my own experience, yes it's possible that he still have feelings for you coz if not why would he be wasting his time meeting you when you already dump him, right? But do not neglect the other fact that maybe he agreed to meet you because he is not busy and just want to check you out.
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• India
27 Mar 12
well, he there is no time lock on how long it might take to forget or stop missing someone . So the period of time , four months in this case is just a matter of what he might have been doing all that time . May be he realized that you miss him and he himself wants to get back together . Or may be he just agreed to meet up with you because he wasn't able to say no , which could be for several reasons one of them is that he misses you just as much . So If you want my advice , meet up with him and see where things go . Try to keep your mind clear of presumptions , that just might lead to disappointment.
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@Christoph56 (1504)
• Canada
28 Mar 12
It doesn't mean that he still loves you, at all. It could mean that, plenty of people on here aren't denying that option, but you also have to keep in mind, that he might just want you, sexually. It's not difficult to entice a man sexually... no matter what your history is, a man can still be attracted to a woman, and he might be going mainly for that, in seeing you again.
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@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
Yes, I think he still has feelings for you. But you better find out. The only way to do this is to actually see him and ask him how he feels about you. How come he had to wait for you to make the first move, etc.
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• India
30 Mar 12
You are right it is better process to know the feelings. Have a nice day.
@rafiholmes (2896)
• Malaysia
28 Mar 12
well..basically..he agress to meet u.. meanig he still wanna see your face..and associates himself with u..in a friends only way..or as a former lovers..etc
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@myzhian (584)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
hi nice, It depends upon the relationship you have with him for four years, But I guess you have really love and spent time with each other to last for years. The love is still their dwelling in him and so with you. He manages not to call you maybe he is too hesitant to confront you especially if he is the root of the breakup. But you need to be cautious of course for you have been disengage for some period of time, you will only compromise the reason why he agreed to see you through his words and gestures the moment you talk to him or with him together. And if you are planning to reconcile with him, maybe it is better if he will court you the same way before again so that you could have a brand new start. But if it is not then it is right to talk so that you can comprehend your situation and could settle things for both of you to move on.
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@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
28 Mar 12
For starters he wants to see you. It's possible that he may still have feelings for you (been there) but it's also possible that he may just want to see you (also been there). My advice don't get your hopes up so you don't get disappointed. See how it goes and discuss things, feelings.
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@Polgara (31)
• Germany
28 Mar 12
It can mean that he still loves you and wants you back, but you cannot know it for sure before you meet him. You can only be sure that he wants to see you again. So, meet with him, have a talk and ask him. Then you will know for sure what he feels about you. Making guesses doesn´t help. If you´ve been so long together with him, it is very probable that he still wants you back, but still, you have to talk to HIM and not to us, to find that out. Good luck!
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