Life is just too short.

@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
March 28, 2012 7:41pm CST
I'm 32 and single and no job. When I was in 20 to 26 I have a life of my own. Have a job. Have girlfriend. I'm prime of my life. 2008 I loss my job and until now I have hard time finding a stable income. I need to find a new way to earn money online or find a job. Problem is that I spend all of my saving looking for a job and sustaining myself too but still not find any job at all.
11 responses
@pjha1975 (214)
• India
29 Mar 12
I would say live it up!!! ;-) But then, money is very important in life. Like shwetat195 suggested, post up your competencies here on myLot as well as any career site you have access to. Life is a challenge. You need to find the right opportunity for you... Best of luck and god bless... :-)
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
That's what I'm trying to do in the last five years of my life. Finding a right opportunity for me. problem is that opportunity come but its not really given to me. I'm hoping that tomorrow theirs a good news but its seems when tomorrow comes its all just bad news.
• India
29 Mar 12
I am sorry to read this. I am not too sure about your country, however had you been in my country, i would have suggested you to join any BPO sector. I personally feel BPO sectors have helped many people from getting depressed. besides, if i may ask you to elaborate on your competencies, then i guess you can actually get a good response from people around and help yourself.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
I did try it. I'm from Philippines but I can't pronounce letter "R". Its inborn. I don't know if its can be fix or not. But I guess no matter how hard I tried I just can't pronounce letter "R". I'm wondering if I can find a way to find solution to this problem of mine. Because I have guts to apply in call center. I just don't have "R" for it. lols.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
I don't have problem with "sh" but I really frustrated that I practice every day pronouncing "R" but with no improvement. Just imagine that if I can work in a call center I can have a normal life again. I know I can work good in call center. I know I can make it. If only I can pronounce letter "R".
• India
31 Mar 12
yeah, thats a problem. I know many people struggle in "R" and then "Sh". It's a negative for call center jobs. May you can look for an back office jobs in call center.
• Chatsworth, California
29 Mar 12
Thirty-two is still pretty young hun But ya, I'm 28 and still living with my parents. I kinda wish someone would just tell me what to do in life.
• Chatsworth, California
29 Mar 12
I don't have a job either btw.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Since you are living in U.S. I guess its easy for you to find a job in their. Unlike in our country that almost 30% of people in here don't have a job. Crime rate is very high. I don't think its going to be worth it to live a life in here. that's why I'm looking to find job abroad or open a business. I think you also open a business if you can't find a job.
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
Have you ever though about stating a business? I think it's better than having a job. You will be your own boss. I also think we don't get much from earning online. So I don't expect it can sustain our everyday needs.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
I tried 5 business and in span of five years and loss every thing and even have incur debts and also loss my gf because of financial ruin I'm in right now. Before Its easy money. Now I earn in a month what I earn in a day before. that's how low is my income and since I have bank debts and creditcard debts its really killing me off.
@Mashnn (4502)
29 Mar 12
I am sorry that you cannot find a job that you badly need right now. Do not give up but continue looking for a job, God usually reveal to us when we are almost giving up. Keeping on trying and I hope you can find the job that you deserve.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
I'm not pessimistic. I'm realistic. Pessimistic is a person who sees failure in every opportunity. While me in other hand has no opportunity to grab in the first place. If theirs an opportunity I always grab it. I'm optimistic in nature in nature. But how can I be optimistic if theirs nothing to be optimist in the first place.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
I hope so. But I guess hope can't find me a job. In reality if you want to find a job you need to have an edge in every thing. At this time I'm old and theirs just too many new graduates that I don't think I can make it anymore. Because who going to hire a 30 something when someone can hire a 20 something.
@Mashnn (4502)
31 Mar 12
You seems to have lost hope in anything. As I have said in my earlier response, just try to have faith that anything good can happen and stop being so pessimistic.
@bachri (108)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 12
hmm, i have one site that can give you some earning of money. i get from the task in this site too. http://justbeenpaid.com/login.php just follow that url. after that i will give you some direction. oh ya, don't give up about your live. i think your live just already begin. keep up your spirit friends.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
This is not a thread for promoting a site. Read the rules of mylot. Your not contributing in my thread at all. good day.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
My point is that justbeenpaid is a referral driven pyramid scheme, ponzi scheme type of site that you earn interest and you earn commission from someone who join under you. I know about this site more than six months already and believe me I know its paying but I don't promote hyip sites, cycler sites and autosurf sites. Because in the end they turn to scam.
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
From what school did you graduate?Maybe I can help you.I'm working at home & I enjoy my online job.Maybe i can share it w/you.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
My main objective is to find offline job. A real job in the government but even I pass all of the exams and interview and since I don't know someone in the government my application still hangs. Anyway I graduate from acsat quezon city branch. Its okay if you don't hear from that school before. Anyway can you share it with me? thanks.
@tonyllenium (6254)
• Italy
29 Mar 12
i know what you are talking about unluckly finding a job nowadays is really difficult due to crysis and recession even in my country many people in last year lost their job and so now many searching some stble but it is really difficult to find one really affordable!!Hiping better times will come for all!
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
I hope so. But I already wasted 5 years of my life and I need to have two years if I have a job just to pay off all of my debt then that's the time I can have my life back again. But not all. my gf and friend for 10 years left me a year ago simply because we don't see any future if she is with me. Its a mutual break up but now she has a baby and how I wish if I'm only financially stable its should be my baby.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Don’t lose hope for God has a better plan for you. I know it’s hard to find a good and stable job nowadays but you are still young and that one day you will find the right job for you. Sometimes god delays what we are praying for a better one. Just hang in there and goodluck!
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
Young does not mean I don't eat. What the use of being young if I can't afford even to pay house rent? food, etc? Its really hard that I fall this far. But one thing lead to another and I end up like this. five years ago I'm nearing my one million pesos target. But now I'm one hundred thousand pesos in debt. With no work.
@pandora22 (868)
• Romania
29 Mar 12
this is the thing with life.now you up and next day you are down.but in the same way you can get up and fix your life in a second.you don't have to lose hope because that is the most important thing.i have learned in many cases that life can be very hard but the most imortant thing is to be alive.in our days many people face the problem of finding a job,trust me i know.you just have to keep looking and don't lose hope.i hope you will succed soon.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
31 Mar 12
I don't easily loss hope. But for five years I struggle and sometimes you just reach a point that you loss your energy to fight on. I'm excused already so excused. I earn 20,000 pesos a month five years ago. I know its not much but at least I can buy things that I want since I'm single. Now I have 0ne hundred thousand pesos debt plus 6% monthly interest. with no income and no more bank deposits. I'm doom.
• Germany
29 Mar 12
Hi , at protypers you can earn a bit of money for further investments . They pay every monday or tuesday to your paypal account . It´s not the world but I hope it´ll help you . Earning a lot online takes time .
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
Thanks. But what I want is a legit online job. or legit offline job. In which I have since of stability. I know its hard to earn money online. But just one or two sites that I can earn 1,000 dollars a month I'm already happy. that's all the amount I need to survive.